I HATE how men are just allowed to check girls out in public?

Question

I was out with my brother the other day at the mall, and the whole time all these guys were like whistling and checking me out. First of all, it's f*cking creepy and I hate it. What makes guys think they can do that? I wanted to punch every one of them in the balls. And my brother was getting pissed off too. What makes guys think they're allowed to do that?

Answer 1

we just enjoy women

and i had no idea we were allowed either lol

Answer 2

This is guys' style. Guys love hot and s**y girl. There is nothing you can do. Its their mouth. You can't own their mouth. They have right to do with their mouth. You just ignore them. Or you want accept the fact that you are s**y or hot.

Answer 3

omfg god gurl i get that all time.i what to do the same thing.

men r a** holes.i just what to slap the sh*t out of them.

Answer 4

lol...i get mad when guys look at my sister to, but i still check out girls all the time.. its a guy thing, we have eyes we can use them. also theres no problem for you to check out guys its what people do when they see some one good looking, so take it as a good thing, uless they approche you and do anything then thats diffrent. but once you grow up you will learn about this stuff.

sh*t how old are you

Answer 5

there's looking and there's making someone deathly uncomfortable. Learn to get some class, it scares all the non-ho's away real fast. What you see in music videos isn't like it is in real life. People get the police called on them for acting/being a stalker, and for good reason.

Answer 6

When have guys ever thought of being ALLOWED to do something?!?!  They are guys...gawking at women is part of their DNA!!!  It's almost expected!

Let them stare...it's a little bit of an ego boost at times...once they stop, you'll probably complain that no one even turns your way!!!  Now, if they did more than just a stare and whistle...that's a different story...

Answer 7

I have no idea, its like they think that women have no feelings. people like that upset me with how rude they are.

Answer 8

i agree

the only time they should be allowed to do it

is if some S****y hoe wants the attention and dresses like a s**t

otherwise

they should be punished

like fined or something

Answer 9

Women do it to men too, but we enjoy it.

Answer 10

Consider yourself lucky to be in the US, in Italy they would just about rape you there on the street.

Answer 11

They watch TV and music videos.The women on TV are always so inviting, so they just think they can treat anyone that way because the women on TV never turn around and beat the c**p out of the guys for whistling at her. It is annoying, I hate when guys follow me down the street in their cars, I just call the police now, but before that I would just be scared and hope they didn't follow me home!

Answer 12

It goes both ways sweetie, dont tell me you do not check out good looking guys.  I do agree that the whistling is a little overboard but since I am 30, this rarely happens to me anymore so I actually enjoy it when it does.

Answer 13

Well, the whistling is a bit much... but really, they can't even look?  It's not totally their fault that they haven't mastered the art of subtlety.  Girls check out guys, too, just not quite as obviously.

Answer 14

Pests.

Answer 15

because we are allowed to, just like youre allowed to.

get used to freedom of speech.

move to an arabic country where the men cover you in clothe form your head to your toe if you dont wnat to be looked at

Answer 16

some of them are just pigs and jerks...... im sry about that.......

Plzzzz answer mine at http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 17

It's when they are in the pack that they are so courageous. But get them one by one and it's a different story.

Answer 18

boys will be boys

Answer 19

Its like a natural instinct for men. They try to act all tough and cool. We think we'll pick the girl up but we don't. i swear i never do it. its just rude.

Answer 20

Hey, lighten up and be flattered you are getting attention.   If the statements are blatantly sexual, maybe it's time to change your appearance a little.

Start wearing baggier clothes and play down the hair and make up.  People will start ignoring you, and then you'll be happy--right?.

Answer 21

its not all guys. its the low class, trashy guys. they arent going any where in life so dont let it bother you. and be happy that at least ppl think your attractive

Answer 22

I check out girls but i have enough respect not to whistle at them i do it respectfully.

Answer 23

Its no different with chicks. They check us out too

Answer 24

What? We are allowed? Dang, no one sent me the memo. I need to go um, water the lawn.

Answer 25

Males who choose to exhibit the behavior that you have described do it because 1.) they are obviously immature and/or not capable of carrying on a decent conversation with the opposite s*x; 2.) they do not understand the concept of establishing boundaries and being polite toward others; and 3) they are obviously craving attention.  If I were you, I would dismiss them all together.  Little immature boys (posing as men) should always be ignored.  It's the mature, well-rounded, and respectful male (of whom you will encounter one day) that you should devote a little attention to...

Answer 26

UGH! I know exactly how you feel. I was at CVS with my bro and mom and this group of guys kept following me and shouting all those comments while I'm trying to hide in this small asz store! I get embarrassed. And then some old guy at the mall hit on me so I made scene but does anyone do something about it? But unfortunately we can't do anything about it, people have freedom of speech and "trying" to flirt. It pisses my bro off ALOT too. Like atleast do it when we're alone.

Answer 27

they have poor manners and probably not that much self control. ignore them if they're only whistling but you could probably talk to a security guard or your brother if they approach you

Answer 28

It is the animal nature of all species that have two sexes and eyes.

Why do people of either s*x wear certain clothes (name brand or well designed), do get attention from the opposite s*x, it's that simple.

You could always cover yourself up in plain baggy clothing and not wear make-up and fix your hair that would solve your problem of being checked out by guys or even girls. The girls will are more apt to criticize your outfit and make rude comments if it's not up to par.