I Hate Living at My House!!!?

Question

I feel like i dont belong. I always liked elegance, formality. my family is far from that. i like calm relaxing atmosphere. in my house its anything but that.... i dont feel loved. idk sorry that im ranting. i just feel so different. i cant stand eating with them because they have almost no manners. its all so irritating and annoying. i dont even look like them. whats wrong with me??? is it just a phase im going through. sometimes i just want to leave this house and never come back because i hate it living there. my mom doesnt feel like a loving caring sweet mother, she nags me a lot and im the kind of person who cant stand nagging. she acts like a rival almost. she always gives me the feeling like she has low expectations of me. its kind of depressing. sometimes i just want to leave and never come back, what can i do to make things better. or how can i ignore all this. any advice please.

Answer 1

You can always be your own person. Try involving yourself with activities outside of school. Try talking tour family about things that you want to improve or change. Be open to suggestions from them as well and when describing your problems with how things are going- don't use insulting words and keep your voice calm. If they start yelling you will be the mature one in the situation. Also stick to one problem at a time don't stack up problems in a list and don't use problems you have with them as retorts for a response. If you talk it out you can probably work something out. Also I am not saying this is the case but your parents may not have enough money for the lifestyle you want( elegant). If you try this and it still doesn't work know that your family doesn't define you. You can make yourself a relaxing place in your room, keep your OWN manners nice and do thiings your way.

Answer 2

I don't know how to  make things better, but what you can do is make goals for yourself.  Especially in the education and job department.  Do the best you can in school and try and win scholarships  to college then get a good job so you can live the lifestyle that you would like

Answer 3

All I can say is there are only so many things we have control over. Things like what people say or do we cannot control, however, we can control how we choose to react to them. Just be the best person you can be, and this will vary from day to day depending on a variety of things. This will help see you threw till your old enough to live your own life away from them