I Have A Crush ON Myself...I Need Help?

Question

i've got a huge crush on myself...really conceited...what to do??? ((no joke)) i don't think i'm the **prettiest** in the world, as a matter of fact i think i'm just pretty in an innocent kind of way. i'm not s**y or have s*x appeal...i'm just geeky hot ((???)) i need heeeeeeeeeeeelp.

Answer 1

Don't feel bad sounds like your a typical female.

Answer 2

Send me a photo of yourself---I'll give you my honest opinion!

(Or you could put one of yourself up on hotornot.com!)

Answer 3

You should have posted this in the Psychology section... better help and answers there.

Answer 4

sounds like you just need a good spanking

Answer 5

Well, you like yourself.  There's nothing wrong with that.  It's good to have self-confidence.

Answer 6

no its just your perception of yourself is healthy rather too healthy but thats good

now you need to work for a counselling centre and work on others to be like you

Answer 7

Wow - i'm not sure what to think of that.  I kinda get that insecure, shallow vibe from your question.  I think that we all go thru phases - of feeling pretty, or ugly, and it depends on what we feel about ourself internally.  I hope you love yourself inside just as much.  If you really too much on your superficial looks - as you age, you will be prone to more depression and other ailments.  Better to love your inner self.    That's long lasting love affair material right there.

Answer 8

why you are lucky that is a real cheap  way of having an affair ,and be dificult to cheat on,and if one of you did you would be the first to know

Answer 9

theres nothing wrong with having good self esteem. good job on having a good self image. whenever you find youself having these feelings think,

a. are you really proud of yourself for accomplishing something?

b. do you feel beautiful and atractive to OTHERS and you find youself feeling very confident?

c. do you just find yourself hot?

Try occupying yourself with someone else your attracted to (if there is anyone)

If this is for real then good luck.

Answer 10

You need a guy to find it out.

Answer 11

Mirrors...lots of mirrors...

Answer 12

What?

Answer 13

YOU MAY HAVE A NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER

Answer 14

well send us a photo of you first thing in the morning and wake up

Answer 15

There is a difference between conceit and self-esteem. If someone has self-esteem (because she's pretty, clever etc) that's great! But conceit is just arrogance that is unjustified.

To me, conceit is about  your bad action on those around you as a consequence of what you think of yourself. For example, if you are pretty, do you jeer at others who are plain?

Self esteem is just calm, self-confidence. She knows she is pretty, and leave it at that.

There is a fine line between self-esteem and conceit. But you can recognize one from the other simply by analyzing these:

1) Has the person ever bragged about her personal traits?

Now, with people who has self-esteem, she doesn't need to say how intelligent/ pretty she is....because she knows it is self-evident.  People who brag  is insecure...they want to make sure other people knows/agrees with their good opinion of themselves.

Those with high self-esteem will just take for granted that people would notice what is so damned obvious and would not annoy us with their consistent braggings.

2)Has the person ever talk about other people's weaknesses (emphasizing how she is so much the opposite)?

That is conceit! Thinking you are above others because of a certain quality. With conceited people, talking about other people's weaknesses is like a compulsion that they can't control.

Those with self-esteem would never do that. They may despise a certain weakness as a matter of principle only. And when they do despise someone, it;s usually because they feel their principles have been violated.

3)Does the person seem to do things for attention?

You know those annoying hot girls who like to laugh so loudly and cause commotion to get attention. And in lecture, you would know those people who ask questions with many sophisticated terms that were never mentioned in the lecture itself. Or those people who think they are hilarious when they say "Attention people, I just want to make an anouncement that I don't  have any more announcements to make. HAHAHHA"

Those are the people who are conceited because they think they deserve attention for being pretty, clever/knowledgeable and witty? And they end up coming across as annoying! They don't have the calm self-confidence, assurance that they would stand out anyway even without resorting to such acts. Because those acts always involve a bit of hypocrisy and pretence. Why would anyone with high self-esteem do any such things?

So, that is one of the many ways I recognize those with self-esteem and those with conceit. It's not about what you think of yourself, but how you act as a result of your opinion.

I have some conceited thoughts of myself at times, but when I realize that out there there are others who have the same things with perhaps a much more generous proportion, it never fails to sober me up.

All we should do is be thankful for good genetics and upbringing, and use it in the best way possible to achieve something greater in life.

On the other hand, if you never do any of those 3 things...then it's ok to be in love with yourself. Then, it's not coneit.

Answer 16

why do you need help for having high self-esteem. it's nothing wrong with you at all.

Answer 17

right on woman!  gotta be careful though.  what happens if things get really serious?  What happens if you break up?  dear god the irony!

Answer 18

well,congratulations on yourself perception!

Answer 19

Nothing wrong with that!!!

Everything right!

You have to love SELF more than anyone else even before you can pass the love for another...

Answer 20

Maybe you should ask yourself to go on a date!

But really, that is odd... maybe you should try turning that energy around and make it into self-confidence, so that you will be empowered by it rather than confused. Try to realize that the person you have a crush on is YOU, that you admire yourself, but that yourself is you and therefore, why shouldn't others admire you? Take the feeling of separation between your mind and your body and change it into one of connectedness -- realize that it is YOU you're talking about.

Just ponder it a lot, that will get you somewhere.

Answer 21

Wasn't there a greek story about a man who was in love with himself. Read that.