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I Have family problems, maybe since i was born but the thing is... [answers please]?

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my parents have been fighting over the smallest things since who knows before i was even born!

my dad is kind of the person who doesnt know what he loves [except for books] and wants to do. he's 42/43/44 [idk how old =S!!] and he doesnt have a stable job, i mean like a permanent job.

he had a good job in the Philippines but we moved to Australia [again] in 2006. And ever since, he's never gotten a job he likes or doesnt even bother to.

I feel very sorry for my mum bcos she pays when my dad has to take classes like aged care stuff, etc. And when he's so stressed about it he blames my mum that shes pressuring him to do things that he cant do [he cant drive, hes been learning since last year and hasnt even gotten freaking P's!!! and its been 6-8 months already, whilst my mum has only learned since may or so and is nearly getting her P's]

they always fight and when i was like 8-10 i always cried

but now, i dont cry, and i dont care [except for my mum], im not like the other kids who get affected by family problems.

why is this besides me probably being used to this fight.

but im so sick of the shitttt my dad gives my mum,

i want us to seperate [my mum does too]

how though, we dont have loads of money to get a divorce or you knoww, and im just scared if they seperate my dad would go nuts [bcos he's got bad OCD, etc.] and he cant even cook proper food for himself or help do the ironing, just bcos his studying is 'stressing'

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  1. I'm glad that you're a strong person who didn't let those fights affect you unlike some weak kids. But anyways you have to face the fact that you can't do anything about the situation. It's sort of a you "have to deal with the hand you were given" type situation. If you and your mom leave, how could you possibly live since a lot of the money is going to go to the divorce. And your dad's going to be starving to death. You just have to deal with it and hopefully you get a good job and take your mom away when you have the money. Just remind your mom that she's doing a good job raising you. Good luck. Just learn to deal.


  2. Maybe you and your Mom need a day at the beach. Actually, just a few hours each week. How about every sunday from noon until three. You and your Mom just go out to lunch or whatever. Window shopping, movies....take a break.

    As far as affording a divorce; whats wrong with just leaving. Drop him off at one of his relatives or friends homes and leave. Pack your stuff and move. He obviously knows what the problem is. He obviously relys on your Mom too much. She may be enabeling him. He will find a way if you really want to leave.

  3. ur dad is stressed out........

    he's not doing anything right....deal with it.....

    i'm so sorry to hear that....

    ur dad is really an a*****e i'd say...........he's not doing anything right but always blames others for it (especially saying that to ur mom), he's such an ungrateful guy...omg..................

    it may be a better choice to seperate, cause if this goes on, ur mom's heart will just be much more broken and ur dad's just making more sins for himself,,,,,,

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