I JUST LOST MY VIRGINITY!!?

Question

last night i decided to have s*x with my boyfriend..it was his first time too!...it was soo awkward and i dont know if i did it right and i am afraid to talk to him..his p***s was too big i think and he was having troubles getting it in and then it was taking me for ever to have an o****m and i was soo embarased!..and it was hard at first but then his p***s went soft.. he used a condom but i am afraid i am going to get pregnant now!! i guesss we did it missionary style or something thats what he said! i am just very confused and need some comfort or help!!

Answer 1

ok first of all how old are  you cause by what you wrote it seems like your only 14 and well if you are under age you shouldn't be having s*x.....but for a girl it takes a long time to have an o****m and when his p***s went soft thats means he either *** or he lost interest in having s*x..oh yeah and you cant get prego if you used a condom....

Answer 2

hi there, I was 17 going on 18 when I lost mine too. You are not a w***e. I'm glad you waited until you were older. Lots of kids are losing it at 12 and some even younger.

Whoo hoo on the condom, proud! Not likely to be pregnant, don't search for symptoms because you'll only drive yourself crazy. But do look into other sources of birth control, my sister likes the nuvaring and i get the shot every 3 mths.

s*x does hurt the first time. A lot. Next time, use a lubricant. Orgasms in women don't happen as often (or as easy) as it does for men. Sometimes you're even oblivious that you are having one until right before. It'll be awkward for a while, until the two of you become comfortable with it, it took my bf and i a couple of rounds before we finally got into it. we've discovered that if he sits up and i face him, it is less painful, and you can get your "o" easier that way because you control the movements. Don't worry, s*x is fun, but you don't have to do it allllllll the time. continue being careful and don't think that "just once" without a condom that you will be safe. Nope, doesn't work that way. Can still happen. Oh yeah and foreplay can make it easier for him to get inside.

Good luck and be responsible!

Answer 3

well thats why smart people lose their virginity to husbands not boyfriends

Answer 4

Condoms have a failure rate of about 1 in 100 and if you/he used one given by Planned Parenthood, they have a even higher failure rate.

Answer 5

Okay sorry to butt into your whole "I lost my virginity!!" drama thing.

I just had to make a comment directed to the idiot that said you can't get pregnant if you use a condom. WRONG!!

Buddy, if you're going to bother answering the question then make sure that your answer is correct.

There have been many cases where the condom has broken or other issues have occurred. Condoms are not 100% effective so you can't always depend on them.

Thanks. : )

xoxoxo

Answer 6

Awww....it should've been a happier thing for you both, but it rarely turns out perfect the first time, especially for the girl.  You might be sore for the next few times, as well--and that's normal.   I'm just glad that it happened with someone who cares for you.

With that said...now is a good time to make sure that you both are comfortable TALKING about s*x and its place in your relationship.  If you're old enough to do it, you're old enough to start working on making it better--and of course, always safe.   So now is also the time for you to make an iron-clad guarantee that you will use birth control EVERY time.  No exceptions.  No "oops it just happened."  Be prepared, and despite anything folks on this board might say to scare you, birth control is pretty reliable IF you use it.

Since no one else will say it, I will.  Congratulations on reaching a major turning point in your young life.  You feel like a different person today, don't you?  Hold onto the magic, and let go of any worries about not having a mind-blowing first time.  Go forward intelligently to love and learn [SAFELY!].  

Answer 7

umm yeah ok, how about TALK TO YOUR MOTHER!

Answer 8

Sounds like you don't know a lot about s*x.  You really shouldn't be practicing it without knowledge.  Not sure what your age is, but educate yourself first.  Don't have s*x anymore.

Answer 9

how old are you?

your obviously not mature enough for s*x or any of the responsibilities that come with it so please dont have s*x for a long time!

Answer 10

As far as being pregnant you are probably fine.  Usually the first time hurts and it dosent feel very good unti l you have done it a few times, and if he is a first timer as well, he probably didn't know how gentle to be!  You will feel better soon though!  Just always remember to be safe and get on birth control ASAP

Answer 11

That usually happens who guys that are also virgins. If he didn't ejaculate than you shouldn't be pregnant. But if your worried just take a test. s*x is really a simple thing. If you have questions you can go to  your gyno or look up things online.

Answer 12

The first time is often a disaster.  You can try again after a few days; a bit of vaginal lubricant will be helpful.  Once you get the hang of it, it is one of the more wonderful things that one can do.  A condom provides adequate protection, but if you anticipate s*x on a regular basis, I recommend The Pill.

Answer 13

I m helpless for u... Dnt worry n pray for ur monthly periods

Answer 14

try not to worry, if he used a condom u should be fine. hope for your period nd see a doc if you miss it.

how old are you?