I JUST WANT TO RUN AWAY!!!!?

Question

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Hi guys, Im 18 yrz old living with my family including my brothers wife who i cant stand!!! i really hate her she does things on purpose to get you annoyed. she acts like my mum most of the time. she has got really evil intentions and i know her more than anyone (even her own husband) she does all sorts but im not going to go in to that as il be here forever. basically i cant take it, i dont want to live in this house anymore, me and my younger brother feel left out and mum and dad know how she is but they still love her 4 some strange reason. i mean beat this one, when she was pregnant, she pretended to fall down and blame it on me! good job i wasnt even home. iv controlled my anger for so long now and im not into all this trouble causing and fighting and stuff but shes really geting on my nerves. theres like so many people living in my family and its all squashed... she wont get out, i mena she wont even buy her own house and get lost, shes like living here for free, she wastes so much electricity. once i went passed her room, she opened her door and the heat smacked my face, she left the heater on all night all day even when it was so warm outside. she does things on purpose. i tell my mum an she starts swearing at me like leave her alone whay are u after her 4... i know i sound really horrible probably but for how long do i put up with this, so i made a decision that if she wont lave the house , i will! but im scared an aout to start uni, dont have a penny lol where will i go? am i making a right choice by leaving my house??? if i want to leave where will i get help from?

Answer 1

You're 18 yeah, so you can legally get your own car, house, anything cause to the law - you're an adult. You can control your anger, I respect that most people would actually thrash out instead you keep your calm. Don't give in to her, as you'll only satisfy her by giving a reaction.

I suggest you write a letter to your brother, saying how you feeling left out and maybe your parents. If things are getting over stressed for you, go to a relatives house - at least it's better then a hostel. Or a friends- someone you trust 100%

This girl is obviously making your home her home but if your parents agree then I think you should have a heart to heart with your parents and maybe they can talk with your bro and his wife about Home Rules.

Answer 2

You need to tell your mum and dad how this woman is behaving, NOW!!!

You are their son, make them underatsnd how she makes you feel!!!

Answer 3

Hey Bro, I am sorry for your situation. This is a more complicated matter since your mom and dad love her.

If i where in your state i will live on there till i get a decent job and leave the home with the persons who don't want to live there.

So wait till you get a strong base.Never run away, because she may do all these things to make you run away.

Answer 4

Do you have msn ?

Im in the same position

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