I Love Him But...? can you help me?

Question

ok my ex Chris the last time i was with him was almost 3 years ago

i thought i moved on till yesterday

i was just thinking about him cause someone brought up his name

just remembering all the good times

Oh the reason why we broke up was about baby mama drama

but 2 years ago i found out it was not his

so yea one time about 4 month ago he asked me back and said i don't know and a month ago i said no we can me friends

but i was thinking and i came to this i cant be friends with someone i LOVE

and now i herd he is mad at us cause he thinks the same thing

and now he has a girl but i don't know i hers he still likes me from his best friend

i don't know what do i do how can i tell him i still want him in a mature manner way

i want him like the air i breath

Answer 1

well.. dont worry about it ok? theres no matured way to handle it. the best thing for you to do is be yourself and try to express how you really feel about him. you love him and looks like he still loves you too. tell him personally, looks like the guy is trying hard to move on from you too. so its best you tell him ok? sometimes the most painfull thing are the words that are left unspoken left in the heat of the sun. so go for it. and yes. youre right. you hate someone you really love, the tendency is for you to love him more. you will never move on! go for it ok? i wish you all the best and goodluck^^