I Love My Ex-Girlfriend So Much, PLEASE HELP?

Question

so i was dating this girl, i loved her so much and she loved me so much, all sudden one day on my birthday, she broke up with me, not becuz she stoped loving me, becuz she said i was controling her life alot, and she is tierd of it, but she still loves me alot, so anyway, after 1 week of dumping me, she dated another guy, whic burnt me to death, but i could feel that she did that to make me jealous, so after 2 weeks she broke up with her bf and she called me , and start crying and told me that shes gona do anything to get me back and she loves me alot, i felt bad and i loved her too and since i felt like she needs help i said ok il think about it ,and one day after she said that, she told me that she changed her mind, and she loves the guy again and shes going back in a relationship with him, i got really pissed off so i told her to not call me ever again, and after 3 days she broke up again with her bf, and the day that they broke up her friend called , and she was like : hey whats up im hanging out with (my ex) and i said ok thats cool, im just wondering if you guys think there is still a chance of me and her getting back or what should i do?

thank you :)

Answer 1

I know for sure you won't want to hear this, but she is playing games with you, your heart and your soul. As a human being you deserve so much more than a woman playing "Tag" with your hear and it's not right.

She's doing this because she knows your a pushover, if you want your relationship back you need to take charge as a man, that's what most of us women want. I know some will disagree with me, but personally I want someone I know who will be strong for me.

Put your foot down. Don't call her, don't text her, don't email her (easier said than done), but once you do that, if she really loves you like she says she does she will stop playing with you heart. First thing you must do before this is call her and let her know you are cutting off contact because you deserve better. You don't have time for her to decide whether or not she wants to be with you. Stay to your word and she should come running back because she will be worried about what your doing and who your doing it with.

People like her will go as far as you let her. Don't be her victim sweetie! Good luck!

Answer 2

just curious, how old are you guys?

it seems like a lot of relationships that went around when i was in middle school. as harsh as this sounds, you don't love someone, break up with them and date someone new, tell that new person that you're in love with them after only a week, break up with them and run back to the person you dumped and tell that you're in love with them, and then change your mind again and decide that you're actually more in love with the other person you dated for a week.

since she broke up with the guy she was so in love with though, that means she's single. you're single. talk to her if you still love her that much and see how things work out. if she keeps going back and forth between you and this guy though, it's not healthy for you.

Answer 3

She gets arround man.

If you want a girlfriend for a week or so, go ahead.

Or if you like it when your girl flirts with other guys, go for it.

Otherwise, dont touch that. Find a girl that would stay with you.

Answer 4

This girl obviously likes you alot, she cant stick to one other bf because shes constantly thinking of you.

i suggest taking her back and dont over-control her life.

Answer 5

I think she's playing a fool with you.

You are not a doll to be played with!

Answer 6

U JUST REMEMBER.HE HAS TAKEN UR LOVE FOR GRANTED AND SHE KNEW U R ALWAYS THER FOR HER BUT MAKE HER REALISE THE VALUE OF UR LOVE. AND MAKE FRNDS WITH OTHER GIRL JUST TO MAKE HER REALSIE HW IT FEELS.

Answer 7

honestly man its not worth it shes just playing with your head she knows she can come back you anytime. I would forget her and find someone new. Because dude u dont wanna be standing on the sidelines while shes dating other guys while she crys on your shoulder or her always coming back to you thats not kool sooo i would move on and not even bother with her nemore! for ur own sake