I Love You.....Ok?

Question

Ever been in a relationship when one person says I love you and your at that awkward moment when your not sure if you should say I love you too or try and think of something else like "I really care for you too" because your not at that level yet.

Have you felt pressured to say I Love You? Also what did you say back to them?

On the other side of the fence if you said it and they didnt say it back how did you feel/thoughts?

Answer 1

No if someone says they love me I take them seriously and I usually love them back.

Because if there ready to say they love me I should be at there level too.

If I'm not then maybe we aren't supose to be together?

This sounds like something my friend isaiah would right......Are you lol jk?!

Answer 2

Well when my husband and I first started seeing each other he said I luv u after only a month. I told him not to say that yet that it's too early and we should get to know each other more before we say those words. I had feelings for him but was afraid of those words too soon. Well it didn't harm anything as we're still together.

Answer 3

I had known this guy for a short time and one night on the phone he closes by saying I Love You.  I was shocked and not expecting it after a few weeks of knowing him.  I did not respond back with ILU as I was wondering WTF?  I think it's best to be honest with your feelings.

In the reverse, I would take a long time before considering saying those words to someone.

Answer 4

I accept the "I love you" but don't feel the need to parrot it back. If a person "needs" the reaction, then they're saying "I love you" for their own benefits and not as an authentic token of affection.

If you're early in a relationship, sometimes interrupting the conversation with a hug or caress can get you out of the ackward retort.

Answer 5

It's always been mutual in my relationships. But my poor sister had one jerk say "I love you," and then the next day told her he was only kidding! For some reason she didn't dump him on the spot...

Answer 6

No. It has never happened to me because I am very clear when I am in a relationship I am very clear on where we stand, if I say I love you it is because we are reading the same book and are on the same page and reading the same line. I communicate

Answer 7

when the other person doesn't sat it back u feel crappy, very crappy. it is at this point that u want to get drunk and the next day (after the monster sized hangover u are sure to get) pretend it never happened.

Answer 8

One guy I went out with said it after four days. I wasn't even sure I liked him so I was just like back at ya.

Answer 9

I haven't been in that situation.(and hopefully not for a few more years), but I think it would be hard to respond. If you don't feel the same way, you probably don't want to hurt their feelings.

Answer 10

well just keep quite or kiss them to change the subject and when your done just look at them and say i know but dont say the words and well if you say it to them and they dont say it back hello do you see how you feel so just accept it

Answer 11

Yes it happen to me 3 times that I had been said those little magic words ; but because I am a very honest person ; I was not saying nothing as a response and they understood the message ; so we broke up a couples week  later