I MISS my father!!!?

Question

I miss my dad! When I was 4, we were REALLY close and he was REALLY loving. When he got remarried, I seemed to be out of the picture. He told mymom that I was no longer his responsibility. I am not invited on family trips, go visit my relatives, in family photos, and I don't even see him on the holidays. It seems like I'mleft out.I love him INCREDIBLY.What do I do?

Answer 1

When you want to earn something(your father's love)

You need to loose something(your Ego)

try to convince him even begging him doesn't matter !

coz we live this life once and why should we loose love in that ?

Answer 2

Hi rae, you are a very good daughter, if you love him so much, xpress it. Show him how much u care for him, u cant leave him, bcoz he is your dad. Dont loose a chance. Give him greetin cards (make your own), on his birthday, wish him durin fathersday. One day or the other you tell him," Dad, no matter how much ever u hate me, I still love u, I think about u, if u dont want to be responsible about me then dont, but remember that u hav a daughter who still likes u. I am not doin this for yer money r because u hav to b responsible for me. I am saying this bcoz i like you". This is only an example. Make him feel guilty yourself. Smile when u see him always.Dont keep a sad ,(y r u doin this to me) expression. If nothing works, if he still ignores u, then better forget him. But i pray you get back your dad soon, dads are very special. All the best dear. GOD BLESS U.

Answer 3

I'm very sorry that he did that to you.  But i think the best thing for you to do is just forget about him, because that is just wrong for your dad to say.  Again i am very sorry, I hope everything works out ok for you.

Answer 4

while it is not exactly clear as to how old you are, you obviously hurt. i am not sure his harsh attitude is not meant to just demonstatre loyalty to his new 'family'. may be needs to demonstably cut off from you and your mom because he needs to show that he is not attached to you guys emotionally at all. incidentally, is your mom able to take care of you (assuming you are still young and need to be looked after)? if so let it be made known to your father that you only need to be cared for in an emotional sense. alternatively, try reaching him through his new wife. if you can convince her that you (or your mom) are not a threat to the emotional stability of that family, may be she will help you reach out to your father. In the end let me say, i am not sure what the real answer to your hurt is, because too many imponderables are involved, but i sure feel bad for you. i hope it works out. Very Best!

Answer 5

dont mistake me for saying this i think it may be ur step mothers acting also...she must be acting good to u and change ur fathers mentality on u......dont woorry but if u truley luv ur father he will at times will like u s before....did u do anything frm his wish...may be he wuld hav been hurted by tat but dont wry i say ull be ur once more fathers lovable child frnd:)  

Answer 6

Hi

   Now you should give attention on yourself. It happens in this situations.

   Just live him alone and give your time to your work. Now he can't understand you, because he may be indulged in any other way.

   It depends on you, may be he is unable to say you anything.

Now left him alone and give attention on your own work. When you will be independent, certainly he would be able to understand your own feelings.

             Wish you all the best!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

tell him that it is his duty to take care of you as a father,if he still does not care about you then forget about him ,very soon he will realize what he is doing is really wrong and he will come and ask for forgiveness.

Answer 8

I'm sorry about the events that you experienced. I'm sure every father love his daughter. you should tell your feelings about your father to him so he can understand you better and pay more attention to you.

Answer 9

First of all try to talk to him.

Answer 10

At least you are having a chance if possible to see your dad, but my dad is no more & it is impossible to see him. You have to cope with it b'coz there is no other chance. May be in future & if GOD wishes you can meet him.