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Question

For the longest time now i have felt exremely lonely i'm 20 year old male and recently got out of a relationship that destroyed other relationships in the progress, i live at home with 3 other family members so technically i'm not alone but you guys get the picture, i've always wondered about internet dating sites and how it would be to meet a girl online but find myself hesitating simply because of the fact that i think i'm more of an old fashioned type of dude, and think that that would take alot of fun out of life, most of the time i find myself thinking that one day i'll just run into a girl who i can in time get into a relationship with without the help of the internet, my question is...what do you all think about my logic to avoid these type of sites and should i just suck it up and wait around and hope that i'll find someone on my own?

Answer 1

You describe yourself as old fashioned, so why can't you still be old fashioned w/ someone you met on the internet. Times have changed! Everyone is busy, the internet is one more tool to use to meet other people. It actually opens up so many more opportunities for you. How could it take the fun out of life if you could date and meet a new woman every weekend? Or would you rather 'sit around and HOPE that you'll find someone on your own'?