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I NEED ADVICE BADLY PLEASE!!!?

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My bf I've been dating 2 weeks now I found out he has oral heraps and I would love to give him a first kiss but I am scared to kiss him and he said if a break out comes out that he will use his meds. for it and I was like ok but I'm still scared to kiss him cause I don't want to get it. How can I make sure I won't get it if we kiss????

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You will only get it if he has a cold sore on his mouth when you kiss him.
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I have been seeing commercials that those who have it can still  pass it even if they are not having an outbreak.  You just do not know.

Did he wait until you are boyfriend and girlfriend to tell you?  He should have told you before you became girlfriend and boyfriend.

It is a tough position to be in.  I would go to your doctor and ask a bunch of questions about it.  Get as many facts before you make any decision.  It is your right and he should respect you in  your decision.
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even with medication theres still a chance that you can get it, and he's an idiot becasuse he doesn't have to have a breakout for you to get it. haven't you ever seen the herpes medicine commercials? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r117TS5nr...

watch that its got a lot of good info
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ok oral herpes sound so much worse than what it is! it's a friggin cold sore for goodness sake! just get him to go to the chemist buy some of them compeed patches and you can kiss away sheesh!
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i would kiss him at all unless you want to have herps the rest of your life and possible spread it to other ppl
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if you havent kissed him yet he cant be that important

go and find yourself a nice handsome rich boyfriend WITHOUT herpes
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You CAN"T ...just DON"T kiss him .
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put a condom in his mouth
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Only kiss him with wax lips on.
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That's a think outside the box question, Um you should probably try using a protective layer between each others mouth's. To me this sounds a little uncomfortable but to be honest I have never heard such an odd question.
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I am not an expert on this, but if he doesn't have an outbreak, I don't think you can get it. But Ewwwww! Are you sure this is the only place he has them? Be Careful xox
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You can't be sure.

The only way is not to kiss him.

You've heard the commercials... "...may help prevent the spread..."
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The truth is you can't be sure :\ ..sorry
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He owes it to you to get his herpes sorted out before you go any further. You should really leave him well alone. You owe it yourself - and so does he.

If you're concerned in any way, take medical advice.
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heraps????????

Dear littlebrat***

u seem to be well informed, according to your answers, and only being a teenager u would kiss him even if we told you not to.

Perhaps u should try being an adult now and dating someone u will not be scared of.

Quite frankly it would be like kissing a guy with leprocy,his rotten skin, blood, (o.k. even this is making my tummy churn) falling in your mouth while u are kissing him and u swallow it.

YYYYYYYUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH...

It is "oral herpes" by the way.

luv

peppa

p.s. by the way, have u ever heard of "AIDS"??
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there isn't any perfect protection from that.
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you cant D:
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oral heraps

DO NOT KISS

IF HE LOVES YOU HE SHOULD NOT KISS YOU

YOU TELL HIM

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