I NEED HElP! SOMEONE PlEASE!!!?

Question

okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. i love him so much! but lately i've been feeling like i want to take a break. i see so many guys and i want to be able to flirt with them. i feel trapped. i dont know what i would do without my boyfriend. im wondering if its a good idea to take a break. im scared because i know im always going to love him and want him more than anyone but if we take a break i feel like we'll grow apart or he wont come back to me because he'll be mad of what i did or do with other guys. right now i just want to explore around. is this natural?? do people in relationships feel this way alot?

if we should take a break

i dont know how i would tell him

I NEED ADVICE!

BADLY

SOMEBODY HELP ME PLEASE

IM SO CONFUSED

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Answer 1

Just tell him that you want to take a break to see if he's what you really want don't tell him straight up I want to explor other men cuz that will hurt, and yeah its normal to feel like that when you've been together for a while cuz I felt like that 2 once but hey just don't leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like may leave you for the one he loves...

Answer 2

i would tottaly take a break girl if you feel traped! then take a break unless you know you wonna be together for the wrest of you life and get maried and have kids:) you choose but i think i would keep him if i really liked him

Answer 3

sometimes you have to lose what you have in other to really see it's importance so take a break and when you get back together it'll be the start of something new.

Answer 4

there is no such thing as taking a break.  It is break up or committ.

You should decide.  It sounds like you aren't ready to committ and need to spread your wings.  

If you are very young...then you have to know you are growing.  Your values and ideas and dreams and thoughts and plans  etc are all changing.   You might think you love your boyfriend...and you might...but if you think life is greener on the other side then you have to talk to him and be honest and tell him.

He is going to be hurt and angry and you probably wont' get back together...but there is no such thing as a break.

It is better to find out now than marry and find out it was wrong....

Only you can decide if you want to break it off or not.  If you believe with your whole heart this is the one..then it is ok to fantasize....we all do it...even those like me who have been married for 40 years.  We aren't dead you know.  I know my husband would LOVE TO MEET Sandra Bullock...that is his dream girl....:))))  But I am his wife and I know he loves me...I don't' feel threatened by that.

You always want what you don't have....but you can learn to live without it.  It depends on your maturity and your committment.