I NEED MAJOR HELP! BOY PROBLEM?

Question

i see this guy at school

all the time.

in lunch, and in the halls.

one of my friends is

still friends with him

and me and him arent talking

(he told my friend that "me and him werent talking or doing so good")

i used to like him, and he used to always

hang out with me, hug me, lift me up in the air haha and its crazy

because i miss talking to him!

): i dont know how

to repair back the relationship

and i need help on what to say to him.

I NEED HELP! its driving me nuts.

i dont like like him anymore,

i just want to know how to fix things with him,

because he thinks where in a fight or w/e.

and I NEED TO SAY SOMETHING TO HIM!

what do i say? tell him.. or do?

10POINTS FOR WHOEVER GIVES THE BEST ANSWER(:

thanks so much

Answer 1

theres lots of things you could do

you can just go up to him and start talking to hk again..

or..  you can be like  'hey we havent talked for awhile.  i miss that'

so it doesnt sound like u like him so much anymore.. but u also cant hurt his feelings

Answer 2

Its all in your head.

He has decided for what ever the reason that things have changed.

You cant accept his chose yet if he is like most of us he would not like the fact that you want something he now does not want.

Be it friendship or more.

You have to accept how he sees things as you cant force him to like or speak to you.  

I think you have already tried the "be very friendly" approach and he did not respond.  In that case I would now suggest "gently ignoring" him.

That is to say.

If you run into him just say a polite hi and smile.

Do not ask about him to anyone.

If someone puts him down don't join them.  Instead just say that you have always found him to be great company and leave it there.

If he came into the conversation with others always say how nice he is.

In any of the above or similar stop there.  Don't go on more than a few polite words. Let me just repeat that.   Don't go on about him more than a few polite words.

The positives and good comments will see him again speak to you faster than any negative of forceful approach.  

Answer 3

His reaction and what you do depends on why you guys are not so much friends anymore in the first place. It doesnt hurt to start smiling and waving at him in the hall, at lunch. Making your self seen by him and being a little flirty. But when around him dont be nervous, laugh act cool and calm and just start talking. Talk about sports, another friend, a party, whatever, just talk, good luck~

Answer 4

you need to know how to talk to him?

just talk to him... i really don't know how to make that any more simple to you...

guys don't really read into things the way that girls do...

i'm sure if you just strike up a conversation he will be happy that you're talking to him again...

Answer 5

yeah he doesn't like you

Answer 6

just say''look I'm sorry 4 what happen and I just want 2 be friends again'' and I'm pretty much absolutly sure he will say yes and if he doesnt then forget about him u don't need him.

I hope this helps u, I sure hope it does

Answer 7

At lunch, you need to go and say hi to him.

HAHA!

Just be like, hey! I haven't seen you in forever!

Start up a conversation with him.

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Answer 8

What kind of answer are you expecting? It sounds pretty easy and straightforward to me. Just approach the guy and talk to him, say hello, ask him what happened.

If you want a trickier approach just find out where he is going to be on a certain day and "accidentally" run into him in that place, that's pretty good icebreaker. Hope this helps.  

Answer 9

just strike a conversation with him

just be friendly and eventually ask him whatever happened etc.