I NEED SERIOUS HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Ok, There is this girl that has been my friend for like three years now. I hate being her friend, I want to end our friendship. But she is the meanest person and if I just tell her I don't want to be her friend things will get violent. I need a fake, but good reason to end our friendship. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

start driftting away from her by slowley stop calling her.. if she calls answer talk for a maximum of 5 minutes and say you have to go. Do not invite yourself over to her house and dont except invites to her house unless its like a party or something.  Stop being partners with her at school. Yah Know you could just say " I dont think this friendship really works because it seems as if you really dont like me" If she gets violent tell her you dont want to have anything to do with that and leave.

Answer 2

you dont actully hve to say you dont wnt to be friends, just slowly start hanging out with other people and ignor her gradually, dont make it too oblivious you dont want to be friends anymore, just slowly drift away.

Answer 3

I think you should just stop talking to her so much stop acting like you want to be her friend and just act like another person she knows. Act like how you feel, You don't want to be her friends anyone so don't act like it. She just get bothered by it and either distance herself or ask you about it and just deal with telling her the truth you don't care to be friends like you used to be. Tell her you'll be acquaintance but that is really all you want to be. Don't let he get violent about it she isn't the most powerful person so why let her over rule you like that. Get a self of independence.

Answer 4

you really dont have to tell her  " oh i dont want to be your friend anymore " you sorta just have to ignore eachother , and then you`ll suddenly just start drifting apart , and once that happens the end result will be not being friends. try not to talk to her and stuff , but dont make it obvious . if she wants to hang out tell her your busy and make excuses . soon enough she`ll get tired of asking you and she`ll stop . obviously you wont ask to hang out , so you`ll just drift apart.  

Answer 5

no offense but let me ask you what kind of a friend are you?! Is that how you view friendship? If you don't want to be her friend then why on the first place did you become friends with her. The kindest thing you can do to your friend is to tell her the truth remember you must be cruel in order to be kind and also truth always hurt yet truth can set you free. You don't need any fake reasons and alibi's. Your the one who entered into this mess so you must be responsible and face the consequences.

* I'm very sorry my dear for being rude, I was just disappointed and hurt with what you did and what you are going to do :-(

I know I do not have the right to judge you but honestly let me tell you, your a no good friend, just imagine if your friends are also like that to you (remember the golden rule - do not do unto others what you do not want to do unto you).

also before you end your friendship with her just assess the situation wisely okay?.... like we all know that everything just did not happened they happened for a certain reason,...try to find the reason why you crossed paths on the first place...also try to assess your friend, why is she so mean?, you might not know that you might mean a lot to her...

just a reminder: always remember the number 1 rule in making a decision - do not make any decision when your happy or angry or sad and be responsible and accept the consequences  of your decisions.

...mmm...if you need more advice or you want to argue with me just email me ...^_^

God Bless!