I NEED SOME HELP!!!!!!?

Question

Ive been going to high school for 4 days now as a freshmen and i really hate it. I have no where to sit at lunch and all my friends are at another high school and its always been hard for me to make friends and i think im going to lose it when i get up in the morning i feel sick because i dont want to go i just want to be with my friends back in my old town any help

Answer 1

Well, maybe you should get involved with an after school program or sports or something. You can always get friends that way. But I know it's tough, that use to happen to me, but I really didnt mind the lack of friends. I dont kill myself trying to impress people. I just went outside and ate lunch by myself. Then a boy started talking to me one day, he started to like me, and right now we are married, LOL. So yeah, maybe you can get involved with an activity or something, just give it time. Friends will come.

Answer 2

when I went into middle school ( i haven't yet gone into high school, one more year!) I got really sick in the morning then it got better with time, I only got sick on mondays, then after breaks, now I'm fine. Just suck it up for the first one or two weeks you've only been there for four days. Find a group that look like you'd want to hang out with, then at lunch just ask if you could sit with them ( I know easier said than done). just don't go not try because chances are you'll be come to comfortable with sitting alone and you'll get stuck. Good Luck

Answer 3

It will take some time but eventually you'll find the right group of friends and everything will be okay. Just go sit with some people at a lunch and say hey. For all you know they could just be your new best friend! Plz pick me for best answer

Answer 4

you should try talking to some class mates and see what they like... i know high school is hard .see if there are after school clubs you like. other people in the same club as you porbaly have lots in common with you so your probaly make alot of friends

Answer 5

Geez dude, everyone, trust me everyone feels that way.  its only the first week of school, give it a couple of days. and so what if you have to sit by your self. sooner or later youll make friends as long as you dont isolate your self, it will work out buddy.

Answer 6

Do you know we have two sides is like a guardian angel.  One tell you get up and go to school or work, and the other respond no no you are sick, you have to stay home. right?  Many times I felt like that way.  What I did  I get up, dress up and say to myself.  I going to work, if for any reason I keep sick I will come home.  That took the pressure and laziness to make excuses.  As soon as I get up, I notice I felt better. It's natural we like our friends, it's easier and comfortable to be with your friends than to meet others.  You can always go to see your friends, also you can make new friends.  There are  many of us that feel like you.  Listen to the part of your head that tell you get up and go, that's the part that is right, disregard the other one.  It would be boring if you stay home, you get depress and no chance to meet anyone.  Also you will always regreat if you don't get an education.  Life is hard having and education, let along if you don't have one.  What your chances are?  You ended up working in the fast food restaurant working hard with the minimum wage.  I guarantee you than in a couple of weeks you will be OK and glad.  I hope you do well and I know you will.  Ga

Answer 7

heyy I totally know what you feel like. I came from a school of 200 to a school of 3000 in hs. I knew no one. the best thing to do is get involved. Join a club or a team to get to know people at your school, and to make sure you don't get too lonely, try to spend time with your old friends too. Don't worry it will get better :P

Answer 8

i think you should just try talking to some people you think you might like. or look like your type. and if your shy dont talk but just hang next to them and theyll be like whos that...kool im casandra. and for lunch bring a lunch and sit next to anybody before the seats taken. and dont talk but listen to them and learn about them see if there your type if they are say stuff when it pops up if not go somewhere else hope that helps

Answer 9

Hey what i would do is try talking to a bunch of people and see who doesn't get really rude to you it took me along time to get friends to because i recently moved less than a year ago.

Answer 10

Making friends can be pretty hard but also very rewarding. Sooner or later everyone makes new friends so instead of thinking negatively about it, instead try to make it as positive as possible! I think it's easier to make friends in your classes since everybody is semi-new! On the first day introduce yourself to everyone and sit with people you click with the most! Act interested in their conversations and talk more yourself.

Also you can joini sports teams or clubs, that way you will feel connected to more people and recognise them around the campus!

And just because you're not in the same town as your old friends doesn't mean you can't keep in touch! text/call/email them throughout the day and try to see them on weekends or over breaks!

Good Luck!

Answer 11

Poor thing, I understand you well, I was a freshman too when I was 11. Not a nice feeling. But I'm sure that you should try to adjust, not look back. First - no place at lunch. Just find a free place at some table and ask if you can join. it's not a big problem if they don't accept you at once. or may be come earlier and occupy a table for yourself. let them ask you if they can join (they don't live on these tables, I guess, so there must be a way to occupy one place first). then I would try to smile and say hi to all your classmates when your eyes meet. especially nice ones. Try to ask questions or ask for help or do something together with people, like volunteer to help  when they're going to do some chores if you have them and talk to them. Say you're a freshman and ask somebody of your class to tell you about others. they'll be glad to express what they think. or ask for help with some subjects or where to go in the evening

And besides - I never felt ok in my university, different type of people around me but I made a friend and spent all my free time in another university that suits me better(played basketball, just went to cafes and other places with my new friends... if you're not comfortable at school, it's not the end. you'll find some place where you feel really great.

Answer 12

First of all, try and lose that attitude and sickly feeling. People can perceive that, so always try and look, be and act positive.

Once you got a clear an positive head on your shoulders, try joining a club at your school that is something you really like to do. Yes, it can be nerdy, but who cares? No one there knows who you really are anyway, right? Might as well let that side of you come out with people in a club with similar interests. Like music, join a music club, and there will already be kids there that like music as well. Make friends with them.

Speak up in class. If you have a question, don't be afraid to ask it, and when you do, speak clearly and loud. Even if you don't know what's going it, it will seem like you have a good idea, or really want to know more and shows you're paying attention.

Answer 13

this too shall pass. it's hard and it sux but be yourself. be nice to everyone and watch how popular u get. trust me.

Answer 14

In between periods call your friends if you have a cell phone and they do to. Plus if theres someone you'd like to be friends with go up and talk. Nothing helps you become friends with someone more than a good conversation. If you like a certain sport, try out for the school team. If you make the team it'll up your popularity, more people would want to be your friend. Plus if you like a guy/girl go up and talk to them to, and maybe something could happen. You're not in second grade so tell them you like them. And about the lunch thing, if you do join the sport team you'd most likely be hanging out with people on your team, so you'll sit with them. Hope this helped.  

Answer 15

Get into the local GANG *****! You'll get the *****'s and the respect!

Answer 16

ahahahahahaa bro your a loser. no **** you need help.

Answer 17

You have to live and let live, always smile

be yourslef

Answer 18

even tho its hard try 2 smile and talk to other girls or guys,

or make simple conversations. but im sure later on ull find some friends.its only hard at first because ur new to everything ;D

Answer 19

Find someplace where you can help out. Volunteer at the school library, locate the Athletic Director and see if he needs help with equipment. Talk to the art teacher and see if she needs help with housekeeping or prep for classes. See if there is a stage crew, contact the drama teacher and offer to paint scenery. See if the biology teacher needs help setting up demonstrations. Just find one or two of those tasks that you have interest and skills in.

You will meet more friends. Your parents will be proud of you, you'll feel better about yourself.  Teachers will pay more attention to you. You may even be able to make a little money after awhile.

Answer 20

Gosh,i feel the SAME way!

I'm a freshmen also,ugh it sucks so bad.

I just moved to virginia,for new york.

And i have no freinds.I suck at making friends because i'm shy.I always just go home for lunch,or for a walk.Does your high school let you do that?If not you can always volunteer to help out a teacher durning lunch so you dont have to go to the cafateria.

I just try and get threw everything else,i foucse on my studys and ignore people.I'm 14,and i assume you are right around my age?Im sure somebody will talk with you,sooner or later,just wait.

And myspace or facebook is a great way to keep in touch with your old friends.

good luck!

e-mail me if you want to talk or something,lol.

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Answer 21

get over it...you've only given it 4 days...give it a chance...high school sucks...life sucks...pretty sure there are other people who feel just like you...join a club...talk to people...don't sit around pouting...get up and do soemthign to change your situation

Answer 22

just get to know a few people, its not that hard to pick out who youd be cool with.. just start talking to them. or just go to school stoned, youll get noticed and meet people that way.

Answer 23

always smile be yourself maybe someone will come and sit by you. Try complimenting someone on theire shirt and get to know them. Move to another school maybe or be homeschooled. Maybe talk to a teacher or a counselor.