I NEED to let someone go... How do I do it?

Question

He is infact very dear to me, too dear and I feel if I see him again I might lose all control and I musn't. How do I slowly break away from him? We are friends but we've been a little more than friends and I can't do this anymore. I don't want to hurt his feelings either. He'll be going away soon because he's only here temp from Egypt and I am British/ American but live in Britain. There is no way we could ever have a relationship as he's Muslim and I'm Christian and his family are quite strict so I hear. I don't think they'd accept a white, western woman in his life. We are too different culturally and I need to get him out of my mind.. How do I do this? Thanks...

Answer 1

Be honest.... tell him why....

It's currently the month of Ramadan (Islamic blessed month)... do it after your time 7 because he is fasting and shouldn't be thinking about all this.. When the fast breaks at around 7 British time then it's a good time to tell him so you and him can discuss it so it won't be left one sided. It's more polite that way as it is a blessed month for him...

And tell him the exact reason....... honesty is the best policy lol.. not sure what time Egypt will be.. but make sure it's after 7.