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okay this is my senior year in high school i want to be very popular and stuff i know people but feel like i dont know enough i mean im not the type to really go introduce myself to people and stuff just meet people by coincedince most the time but this is my 2 year at this school but i dont have a girlfriend ether right now but school will start soon in some weeks r so can any of yall giv e me some advice someone told me if i wasnt such a quiet person i probably would be pretty popular then i m now im not the type to you stsay by my self i just want to be hanging with more people and have girlfriends i had a couple last year but i dont have one now and feel bad about that so do yall have some tips that you an tell me that would help me have confidence to talk to people and girls that i would like to meet and how to get not so shy like i kinda am now ????????????????????????????????????????...

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practice laughing at yourself. If you take yourself too seriously, you'll be afraid of making mistakes. DONT TAKE YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY! we're all big fat jokes in the end.

and in the end, it comes down to being ok with the fact that ur shy. I'm shy, but im ok with it. I don't care that i get nervous. I get nervous, but watever! itll be fun. or so i say :]
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Omg!!!

if u want to be popular in school ur makin ur self look bad.

just be yourself!!!

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I think the first thing you need to do is take a breath and add some punctuation to your question. It doesn't help people trying to answer your question when you have trouble finding where one sentence begins and one ends.
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I dont know.
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Just be YOURSELF. Maybe try to socialize a little more with people you dont know that well.
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Why don't you join clubs and make girl friends then ask them out on a date. Hint: Join clubs you enjoy so you might enjoy it and find a girl just right for you.

All the Best!!!
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you dont need serious help lol... your about to be a senior.. grow up a bit .. it is good that you want to have more self confidence.. but there is no need to be super popular.. just be yourself.... people will like you alot better that way... believe me.. nobody likes someone who is fake... and you shouldnt just have a girlfriend just so you can have a girlfriend... have a girlfriend because you actually really like her and want to be with her...
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Do you..... Want a cookie?
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get involved with school activities! that's the quickest way to meet new people and be more "popular" also i know this sounds silly, but to help you with you conversation skills such as shyness, stand in then mirror and practice a few lines. or if you have a pet, try talking to them. i know it sounds dorky, but when the time comes you'll know what to say without having to think about it and stumbling with your words.
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First things first: STOP CAPITALIZING LIKE THIS AND ADDING MANY EXPRESSION MARKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

It's annoying.

Secondly: Stop telling yourself "If i wasn't such a quiet person I would be pretty popular..." Don't tell yourself what you're not, BE what you want to be!

Thirdly: A man ISN'T measured by his girlfriend. That's not a statement of popularity. I have a great group of friends from different parts of the school, and yet my girlfriend is one of the more quieter people in the school. So does that mean I'm more popular because of her? Not really.

Hope this helps!
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You betcha @ss you need some serious help..
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It's also my senior year, but I'm out of that whole popularity stage. I've already done it all. I was basically apart of the "coolest" clique. There's not too much to it really. Basically, you hang out, worry about getting drunk, doing drugs, and having s*x with girls.

My advise to you: don't worry about it too much. Open up to people you feel comfortable too. Usually the "cool" guys are real ***** anyway. It's kind of like something you grow into, not something you can just get into.

Worry about the future, and not friends. They usually **** you over in the end.
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If you have been going to this school for four years or whatever you shouldn't be so shy. You have been seeing these people for 4YEARS!!

If you are not getting so much of the attention you want then try changing your style. I mean go all out!! Change your hair, attire, but don't change your personality. Never change that. It is always good to be you. But go to more partys and stuff too. They will make you more outgoing.
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my GOD you don't have to be popular to be happy.

just be yourself and everything will fall in place.

god d**n.
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Just force yourself to have all the confidence in yourself in the world! If you are confident in yourself, people will be drawn to you. Just force yourself to go up to a couple girls and just start talking to them, about what classes they are taking, if they are doing any sports, that type of stuff, if you start friendships with the girls, that can easily lead to a relationship.

If you had girlfriends and friends last year then obviously you are not that bad! :) Just remember that next time you are feeling a little shy. Just don't let yourself be shy! And I assure you your year will be great! Try not to worry about stuff too! Just have fun! You only have 1 senior year, don't ruin it by worrying about all this stuff! :) GL!
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u gotta do something to get noticed. for example i went to my senior meeting in my boxers just out of boredom. that gets alot of attention. also try to be funny. but dont be the guy that ruins a joke or makes it awkward. chicks dig confidence, and whether they admit it or not they also dig *********. you do this by asserting how much better u are than someone even if you arent. cuz either way it will work for you. just act like you are comfortable and having a good time. if you act awkward you will be awkward

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Kick someone's a*** the first day or become someone's b**ch
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are you seriouss????????

ummmm my advice

be yourself don't be fake!

Us girls can pick up when guys are being fake!

trust me it won't get you anywhere!

be yourself and if they don't like you THEIR loss!!!!

hope i helped
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This has been said already, but it needs to be repeated:

Join clubs, join clubs, join clubs. Yeah, keep it limited to clubs you're interested in, but get into something. Best way to meet people. (Have you considered acting? That's what I did. It was great.)

Also, don't worry, and don't care. For two reasons. First off, the more desperate you are for friends and girlfriends, the more you'll drive people away. If you just get to know people (girls, boys, whoever) and talk with them and hang out with them without really caring where it goes, you'll have more fun and you'll probably be more successful anyway. And secondly, it's not worth caring about. Senior year? You'll be in college in a year anyway, or wherever you decide to end up. So just have fun. That's what senior year's for!

And if that doesn't work, try the cookie and the carrot. Couldn't hurt. (Okay, the carrot might. But the cookie won't.)
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You just need more experience talking to people.
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