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Question

Why does my life suck?

Ever since highschool, everything has been going downwards. My life used to be so exciting and fun. Now, I never know what to say and don't know how to talk (even with my own family). I'm pretty sure my "so called" friends hate me, and i can't even properly communicate with them. Also my eye contact is ****** up. I always get so nervous and don't know where to stare at a person. With girls, i can't keep eye contact becuz it gets weird and i don't want them to think i like them or am a pervert. With boys, i don't want them to think i'm ****** g*y. Plus on the bus, it's even d**n worser. I don't know where to stare or look at. My motivation for living is growing less. I'm not particulary good at anything and am the most boring guy and the quietest there is. I don't know what to do anymore. It seems that a happy life is lost.

Answer 1

High school is an awkward time for everyone.  You are not happy now but you will be.  If your really concerned or depressed see your school counselor or a therapist.

Answer 2

yo  if this is a serouis question  then just grow some nuts and go crazy and live how u want    to // and        lol    stare at anyone u want  and know  it wont bother someone// i  mean u do u care if someone is staring at u lol  it should b a compliment anyway

that whole thing i dont know where to look lol is so   funny but sad lol just close ur eyes haha

i think u need some selfconfidence   /  and   maybe ur g*y/ and liveing a lie lol jk..  

Answer 3

I would suggest trying new and different things, you might come accross something that will make your life more exciting and fun again. I doubt your friends hate you, but if they do, then try and get some new (better) friends. As for eye contact, it seems like you have a mental block that is keeping you from communicating effectively. It is normal to look girls and guys in the eye when speaking, so most people will not assume that you like them. The best advice that I can give you is to essentially not care what others think and to just be yourself. Do not give up on yourself, everyone has low points and high points...and if your life really has been spiriling downwards that just means that you have an awesome good streak on the way to balance it out.

Answer 4

If you are strate, it's really OK to like girls, and to let them know it! It doesn't make you a pervert.

Having sexual feelings is totally normal too! People are having and enjoying s*x...If it weren't for s*x, none of us would be here!

It's also good to enjoy the good looks and interesting things about other people. Even to notice an outstanding person of the same s*x is no big thing. We all had our superhero idols. It's all OK! Doesn't mean that you want to touch or have sexual stuff with him.

It would be good to tell a doctor what you are going through, and he could get you some good help that can be good for bringing yur thought perspective back to a good place!

Yur way too hard on yurself man! A doctor can find a person who can help you out with this. You don't need to go through this.

Wanting the best for you man

Me! :- )        

Answer 5

All you need is setting a proper goal and listen or read to motivational audio or books respectively such as Brian Tracy.  

Answer 6

You do need help and you need a great big boost to your confidence.

What grades did you get at high school?

Do you have a girlfriend?

Try not to think about where to look when you are with someone just concentrate on what they are saying and you will start to act naturally like you did before.

You seem very nervous and down.

Email me if you want to talk more, but I am sure there are lots of good things about you that you need reminding of.

I look forward to hearing from you soon, so get in touch NOW

Regards

Andy

Answer 7

It seems that U really need help, My friend. I dont know which point should I start from... But, I see that u'r really frustate. Mayb u can try to consult with ur parents. Just tell them what do u feel...

Contact me at [e-mail] for further information. I'm a counselor and I hope I can help u, My Friend... :)

Answer 8

talk to your school counselor.

it sounds like you just have low self esteem and not looking at any positives. maybe you should make a list of things your good at and smile! its n ever good to feel bad about your self.

seriously, just talk to your counselor he or she can really help you!