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Question

my ex and i broke up 4 months ago we still been sleeping together i took an overdose i was so broken hearted with out him it really has been the hardest thing i have ever been though, now hes saying he thinks he still loves me and he wants to try and work it out, id do anything to make it work but why do i keep thinking is this really what i want or am i over him but lov him or love him and dont want 2 let him go what what do i think all i no is im sucking up 2 him so much and in my head i keep going round in circles ....

Answer 1

sweets, your heart and your mind are both telling you that this whole scene suks..... even tho you say you'd do anything... and even tho you thought your life was over without him, you're questioning whether this is what you'really want'????... RUN!!!... get away from him now and don't look back... or send him packing.... pick one.... just do it.... no one should ever make you so miserable that you'd even consider 'I can't live without him'... YOU CAN!!!... quite well, in fact!~!.... I've walked away from two bad marriages and with three babies, that's pretty tough.... but I survived.... you will, too..... but looka here, doll.... YOU have to stand strong and get your stuff together!!... this weak stuff don't play..... I'm here if you wanna gab..... hugs, honey....  

Answer 2

Not to be rude but I don't read slang.Maybe you should rewrite your question so others can help you.

Also,This is the gardening section.You might want to re post it in the relationship board

Answer 3

How about you come on over to my place instead?  I'll let you cook me dinner.

Answer 4

Only you can decide what is best for you.

There is really no right or wrong answer, not one that comes from somebody else anyway. Take a little time for yourself to think it over, if you keep going around in circles try putting your thoughts down on paper. This can help unload your mind a bit and make things easier to evaluate.

Write down all the great things about your relationship.

All the sucky things too! Pro's and con's, maybe see which side tallies up higher. You'll drive yourself crazy if you don't make up your mind, so when you do stick to it!

Answer 5

Sorry about your trouble.  Perhaps in your distress, you inadvertently posted this question in the Gardening category.

I suggest that you re-post it in Family & Relationships and/or Mental Health.

Best Wishes to you.