I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years... and we really love each other, but things have been a little dull lately. I'm not talking about physically/sexually... physically we are both still very attracted to each other... but we feel like maybe we've gotten too comfortable.
He told me the other day that he loves me and wants to be with me and no one else....but he's not happy... he feels like things have gotten too routine and he's bored, at first I was upset and defensive, b/c I personally have been pretty happy but then I realized he's right... maybe we have gotten into a dull "old married couple routine." He used to go away to school and it was sooo exciting seeing him on weekends...so I was thinking maybe taking some space or not seeing eachother so much would work...so that when I see him I'll be even more excited...but i'd rather not do that..i'd miss him too much (or maybe that would be the point..)
...but before you say that we need to break up....neither of us want to go our separate ways, we don't want to date anyone else (I asked him...and he said absolutely not and he wants to find a way to make this relationship work, so I told him I'd brainstorm ways to spice things up...which is why i'm asking for advice...)
Basically I guess we feel like we are kinda stuck in a long inbetween stage in our relationship (It's NOT new and exciting...but we're also NOT ready to take it to the next level & get married)... Any ideas or suggestions on how to spice things up and get the love stronger and excitement back??
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