I Need a BRA, HEEELLLPPPP!!!!!

Question

My mom doesn't think it neccessary to have a bra just because she didn't get one until she was in her twenties. But what she doesn't understand is that she was very malnourished, so therefore, didn't need one.

I on the other hand am a B CUP. And she still won't get me one!!!! What do I do????!!!!

Answer 1

...Wow....

You're a Bcup and you dont wear a bra?  Who cares, tell her its MANDATORY, and go buy yourself one.

Answer 2

OMG  a girl has gotta wear a bra or we feel uncomfortable in front of people just go buy one without telling her wats so wrong with a bra i been wearing them since i was 7

Answer 3

sorry for your situation... just go get one

Answer 4

don't most mom's usually MAKE their kids wear bras, even before they think they should?

anyways. who cares if your mom sees it? it is a normal, healthy part of growing up and becoming a woman. anyone over the age of 11 should have a bra. i don't care how much you "need" one.

explain to her that you don't feel comfortable unless you can wear a bra. that you are growing up and that you NEED one.

Answer 5

wow, you need a bra! tell your mom that people will see your b***s if you dont wear one, and that you could get in trouble at school for not wearing one. if you do go out and buy one, buy a few, maybe a friend could bring them 2 school and you could put it on in the bathroom

Answer 6

Just go to the mall with some friends and get one (:

Answer 7

ok how old are you? cuz if you have some money you can go ahead and buy your own bra you don't need your mom's permission

Answer 8

I'd probably go to a sensible aunt or cousin.  They could either take you shopping or talk to your mom.  If you don't have someone like that try a best friends mom- someone you know and like that could help.  For now I recommend wearing camisoles under most things if you don't already.  But if nothing works you should really buy one yourself.

Before the first time you need to wash it you should sit down and talk to your mom about it.  Tell her you really needed a bra and that you had to get one.

Answer 9

Well because of your size, you should really tell her every little detail you wrote here. If you are out with your friends tell them you will be right back if you past a store like that. Maybe Victoria's Secret and buy one really fast. If your mother notices, tell her that it is time for you to get one and that everyone's bodies are different and that yours just so happens to need a bra earlier then she does. If she won't let you, undershirts are good and secretly, you should get the Cami-bras which are an undershirt but with a bra attached.

Good luck and I hope this helps!

Answer 10

omg ur mom wont let u wear a bra..

i would go out and just buy 1 anyways!!!

Answer 11

Explain that to her. Tell you feel uncomfortable not wearing one, or that it's uncomfortable to run, jog, etc. without it.

Answer 12

Talk to your mom! explain how you NEED a bra, tell her that your breats hurt because they are so heavy, explain to her that your b*****s need the support, and that its getting really uncomforable.  If youre a B cup you NEED one, if that all fails, next ime you go to the mall by yourslef or with friends, buy one yourself.  Baggy b***s are NOT attractive ! (i've been wearing a bra since i was 10 !)

For washing, wash it yourself, and hang it to dry in your own room, or offer to do all the laundry yourself, or if you've got really nice friends that you trust, ask them to wash it for you

GOOD LUCK

Answer 13

jesus--in her twenties?!

wow!

heres my suggestion: talk to a girlfriend's mom, and have her talk to YOUR mom. it might be better if you have another trustworthy adult on ur side.

Answer 14

Wow. She didn't wear one until she was 20? I started wearing one when i was 10.

Anyways, just buy one and then tell your mom that you think you really need it and it would make you feel more comfortable if you had one. She should understand.

Answer 15

what should you do?.. i wonder..

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Answer 16

well, just tell her that people make fun of that, they make tanktops with built in bras, just wear those, and at school wear them under a shirt

Answer 17

Tell her straight up your sagging. Or buy one and wear it. she'll get the picture

Answer 18

Go to the doctor talk to the doctor about your situation and maybe they'll be able to convince your mom... Saggy b*****s are very unattractive and you probably feel self contious, so hopefully she comes to her senses and realizes that she isn't you and you are not her.... Or you could save up money and go buy one for yourself...Good luck doll!

Answer 19

A   B? you NEED a bra!!! or else it is nastyyy

tell your mom that it is gross to not wear a bra when you need a B-cup. Or go get bras without her.

Answer 20

That's a tough one. You're mom just probably doesn't want you too grow up yet or something I'm guessing? So maybe you should try talking to her about it, like saying that I'm getting older and people my age need bra's. Lol I know it sounds funny and I'm not sure how old you are but it's worth a try. Or go out and buy one and if she yells at you then explain to her why you need one. Because yes, you REALLY need one. Haha, good luck(:

Answer 21

That's weird. (no offence at all)

But yeah. Talk to her how it's different now and you feel like it's your decision to wear a bra or not.

Tell her that you feel weird and you need and want to wear a bra because you need the support of one.

Good Luck. and if it's a no, go buy one yourself!

Answer 22

tell her that your getting the wrong kind of attention and you would feel better if you had a bra, just because she didn't need one doesn't mean you don't either, and besides its your body and you know how to wat it needs. :)