I Need some advice about a girl who is aquarius sun, pisces moon..

Question

She is 17.

Well we met through work, and eventually became friends. She started to be attached to my hip and we would always be together. She rarely talked to anyone else. Always texting me to see if I am working when she is. And seemed really interested in me. However, always kept complaining about the job and wanting to quit. She changed her mind about quitting the job multiple times. Finally did. However, we never hung outside of work before, and I told her I will miss her. She said we should hang out one day. A week later I eventually asked her to hang out on the following day and she said yes. Well the next day I asked if she still wanted to and she said she had to ask her mom cause she was supposed to be grounded. However, she never got back to me and I haven't heard from her since. It's been five days.

We have only known each other for about 5 months, but we were really close at work. I just don't understand why she would blow me off like this? Is it in her personality type to be contridictive in her ways? because she always said one thing, then changed her mind and did another.

I also might add.. that our friendship seemed to be a little more.. I just felt as though she was attracted to me (both girls) by the way she would look at me before we started to talk to each other.. and once we did, she did a lot of flirting with me. Since I sensed her intrest in me, I began to have feelings for her. My intuition believes she feels the same for me, But the way she has been acting, and changing her mind.. throws me off, I don't know what to think about her anymore. I would love to have a deeper friendship with her, but knowing she never got back to me about hanging out.. I feel as though I should just let it go.. So Judging by her astrology.. what is the best advice you can give me about my situation? SHould I keep trying? If so, how long should I wait before talking to her again? And to let you know, we no longer see each other since she quit her job so communication is through texting.

And if you need to know, I am virgo sun, aquarius moon, libra rising.

Answer 1

Ok Cali here it goes, first of all i personally dont believe in the stars, i think it's a load of bull. this girl that you like is only 17 and seems very confused or just plain immature for her age. You might be better off without her, Is she worth the agro and does she even deserve to have you because i know your a very knid loving person. She just seems to be playing the game of "you cant get this" so just maybe go to kiss her and then you will know for sure if she kisses you back. If she pushes you away and gets angry you could always deny  it happened or maybe just say the h**l with it and ask her out on a date especially if she is flirting with you all the time.

Also there could be many reasons why she blew you off so just wait it out, i know it''s hard but just give her time. Keep trying with her if you want to ,it's completly up to you but do it on your own terms. Dont force things to happen or back her into a corner because it will go wrong for you. I would advise you that if she continues with the behaviour of being best friends and then very cool with you then just forget about her before your feelings get any deeper. She is only 17 and at that age lots of things are going on so if she is g*y then she propably wont realise until 18/19, i dont really know. Only comit time and effort if the girl is worth it for you in the long run but if she is just an immature teen then walk away.

Dont commit yourself to her, thinking you will get her soon beause your the one that will just get hurt and then she will be manipulating some other persons feelings like she seems to be doing with you. If she wants you bad enough then you will get clear signs she is interested in girls. This is just my opinion, maybe not the answer you were looking for but hey keep positive and take care.

Answer 2

aquarius's are notorious for being bad on one on one intimate situations so maybe at work around other people and in an unintimate situation she is more open and flirty with you but when it's time for the intimate stuff she feels tongue tied and/or scared even.  Especially if she is bicurious too.  So that is my answer from an astrological point of view.  She's just shying away because she may not be good at the one on one thing and probably has no idea how to deal with the feelings she may feel too.  Good luck

Answer 3

Hi Cali I am 32 years old and have sun in aquarius and moon in pisces. I can only speak for myself and the little bit of astrology that I do understand. I am extremely attached to the one I love and as you sai"attached to the hip" and don't play hard to get. I am emotional and it is important that my feelings are reciprocated. I think you should ask her one more time and if she is interested in you, she will respond. I never write answers but thought I match the person you were asking about so I can give you a helping perspective. Hope that helps.