I broke up with my girlfriend 4 months ago after a 4 year relationship. I am 23 and she was 21, it was both our first serious relationship and for her I was her first sexual partner. We got on so well together we never argued and she was my best friend and soul mate. During the first year of the relationship she moved away to London to start university while I was still at university in Scotland during that period I fell more in love with her, Then she decided London wasn’t right for her as she missed me to much and moved back to Scotland to study. It was then we decided to move into a flat together as we were so in love.
After about a year and a half living together everything was perfect I couldn’t have been any happier. We got on so well and living together just seemed so right. It was then I got in a comfort zone and started to take the relationship for granted as I thought we would never break up and over a 4 – 6 month period she thought I didn’t love her as much and then she finally decided to break up with me.
Since the split we have both moved into flat shares she decided she wanted to remain as friends and we stayed in contact with each other meeting up every week and talking on the phone it was going really well and when we met up we had such nice times together. During this time she was seeing another guy but has now split and is single. ( I guess he was the rebound).
After 4 months of showing her how much I care and love her the friends thing never worked out as she wasn’t ready to make a decision on going back out and I couldn’t just hang around for the rest of my life waiting for her to make her mind up so last week we decided to have no contact with each other the first time since we split up.
I miss her so much and just want her to give our relationship another chance. Will this no contact make her realise her true feelings for me? I need some advice on what to do now?
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