I REALLY need YOU to PLEASE answer this. (ITS VERY IMPORTANT)?

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Ok I have ended my friendship with a girl I know named kayla and her mother sent me a rude message. Before I show you the message I just want to say this was through myspace and my status message was "If you classify yourself as emo, You're not" oh yeah to let you know... the guy you hear about named grey used to be Kayla's boyfriend and I liked him but NOT now. and ralph is Kayla's step father and gabe is a 6 year old who is Kayla's mothers son. Here is the message she sent me :

" I don't know what your problems are with Kayla but I think that you status update is a little rude since I know that you know that she just put a picture of herself on her page that talks about her being emo If you don't like her anymore leave her alone and quit stocking her and stop being a b*tch just drop it and go f*ck grey like I know you are trying to if you haven't already"

So I thought about her message and I replied with this: " """I'm not trying to f*ck grey and I never was. I also don't think it was rude at all of me to put that as my update , I was just being honest. What I really don't like about kayla is that she thinks shes a f*cking vampire... No i'm sorry she "knows" shes a vampire. Not for pretend.... for real. She talked about how she liked to drink blood a lot and I thought that was discusting. But that's not the whole reason why it all ended. Ever since she had even went out with grey she became a totaly different person. Not the kayla I used to know. Even after her and grey broke up she became different. and tegan... I think it was pretty imature of you to call me a b*tch and tell me to go f*ck grey like you "know" i am "trying to" if i havent already. I'm just saying I don't appreciate being disrespected like that. Oh yeah and FYI Kayla is not what you call "emo" and if she is... no doubt its because of ralph. Shes told me some sh*t before and to let you know its called Abuse and you not getting away from him is just letting it get worse. I have also seen some sh*t happen right infront of me and I'll tell you, i'm surprised gabe doesnt have brain damage. Last time i was staying with you guys while you lived in ohio I know that kayla was scared of both of you but mostly ralph. Now you tell me.. is a child or teen supposed to be scared of their own parents? I have seen gabe get pushed or hit across the room before and one time it was because of a f*cking cap missing to a f*cking remote.... yeah thats a good reason....??? I dont even know HOW many times I have seen ralph hit gabe in the back of the head and I f*cking KNOW it hurts him....emotionally and physically. Just to let you know... you're not a saint either. So THINK next time before you type something about ME not being good to kayla. Have a becautiful day.

p.s I LOVE YOU!! :)"""

I just need to know If I was a little too rude about it. I just sent it a while ago.... P.S We really used curse words but I blocked them so it wouldnt be shown up as >****<

Answer 1

No mother of your &quot;ex&quot; friend or any friend&#039;s mom or your mom can tell you to go f*ck someone or  call you b*tch that is way over the top

especially when its about you ending a friendship. And you did the right thing that message was perfect

But theres one more thing to do.....you need to call the police about the child abuse. please do that.... i dont think the kids want this to go on anymore

Answer 2

thumbs up!

you tell that immature b*tch!

Answer 3

NO!! It was perfect and what kind of an adult or a mom for that matter calls anyone under 18 a b*tch, atleast I think you are under 18, how old are you? Oh and if they do abuse their son, then you should report it to child protective services

Answer 4

well i think u should tal to your freiunds that ur not freinds with anymore.. she must be going through alot right now.. it veryy sad how she&#039;s been treated.. noo u werent rude .. she started the whole thing.. but trust me u need to call the girl if not dont talk to her mum ever again becouse her mum is probably taking it out on the poor girl..  

Answer 5

Well I think you handled that beautifully.

You held a rough argument, and used the sarcastic tone that I often find myself using to belittle older people who feel like they&#039;re allowed to think or act however they want and &#039;kids&#039; don&#039;t know anything about the world.

Swear words should always be kept to a minimum but when you actually feel strongly about a subject, it&#039;s definitely reasonable to let them fly.

Love your work, you showed that stupid mum who was boss. But yea, as &quot;sheepo&quot; (sheepo? o.O) said, you might wanna see how Kayla&#039;s doing through all of this, even if you aren&#039;t friends anymore. Just to make sure she&#039;s alright.

If she&#039;s having real problems then she might open up a little and if it&#039;s nothing big, she might tell you to butt out. Depends on the type of person she is though, I guess.

In any case, gratz on the message. You did a fine job ^ ^

Answer 6

good job - i would say stop communicating with her and if she sends u another email - reply back (as u did) and tell her that you are blocking her and therefore she should not waste her time writing back.  

move on - there are more things to do in life - u r just 14

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Answer 7

Then stop sending message for sometime.

Keep your conversation when you meet in person.

She may be facing some domestic problems.

Please speak to her and console her.

Anything will happen with senseless people.