I RECENTLY HAD A BABY BY C SECTION MY BODY HAS CHANGED AND I FEEL LIKE MY BOYFRIEND FIND ME DISGUSTING? HELP

Question

I recently had a baby by Cesarean, and my body has changed so much for the worse , My boyfriend has no interest in me , seems like it he keeps telling me I need to work out, It's only been a month ,we have not had s*x in 6 months, since before the baby was born, I feel horrible I feel like he is disgusted by me!!! and our relationship has become very distant, we don't talk as much and every thing is about our baby!! I love our baby as much, But I miss my friend my lover!! what can i do??? help!!

Answer 1

did your boyfriend actually say bad things about you?or are you imagining that he said those things bad about you?post par-tum depression plays tricks on our minds alot after having a baby maybe he doesn't want to open your c section up,since it is still tender in that area.give it time.ask him if he can hold hands,kiss,and be playful with you in other romantic ways.ask him for a massage.conversation is extremely important in any relationship.write him little love notes to remind him how much you miss him in the romantic department if you get my drift?

Answer 2

Talk to him..you might really really need him at this moment..also..try talking to your close friends whom you can trust..don't even think about you wieght right now..concentrate on your baby, your health and then your boyfriend. See a doctor if it helps you. Good luck.. and don't worry :)

Answer 3

Postpartum depression,

you need him more then ever right now,

take your vitamins and talk to the doctor soon about it.

you are not alone.