I SERIOUSLY HATE MY PARENTS. what should i do??

Question

ok well i hate them. they always treat me like a slave, never respects me, always treat others better than me. both my parents are seamstress so they would bring home their work to do, like cutting/folding/sewing etc. and they would MAKE ME DO IT or they will hit me if i don't. and i have to do it today :( i seriously hate my mom more cause she is always yelling at me and never believes me! one day i told her i needed glasses and she said YOU DONT NEED THEM! and i seriously needed them. so when i went for my yearly check up at the Doctor they said i needed glasses. so i told my mom and she said " i bet you were just faking you couldn't see it so you would get glasses". like why would i lie or fake it to get glasses?? and she blames EVERYTHING on me! if anything bad happens to my little brother its ALWAYS my little brother. she doesn't even care about me she makes me do everything for her. one time she kept saying i was doing something wrong, that i was a dumb *** and stuff like that i screamed at her went in my restroom and said if i had a gun right now i would shot myself with it. i was that mad. she also lets my big and little brother hit me whenever they want and that is SO not fair. i man i get bruises and she doesn't even care! yeah I'm 13 too.

Answer 1

maybe you could try to be more submissive and honest.  that may help your mom and dad change their attitude towards you.  not mums and dads would deliberately make their child suffer.  you know how much effort to bring you up to this age?  perhaps u will only understand this when you become a parent.

if you would kill yourself (which is the scariest thing) you would stand most things.  until you try to understand your parents will they understand you.  by wanting to commit suicide (even the idea of it) maybe reveals there is a streak in you.  don't do that.  life goes on with or without you.  the only who loses out eventually is just you.  remember good days don't last forever; just as bad days don't last forever.  someday you will be older and stronger enough to be independent and make a life of your own.  and maybe by then you may realise being a parent is not that easy.  take care.

Answer 2

I am really sorry for you. But ingnore that because you have a life and dont throw that all away cause you think your family hates you..... They dont if they hated you you would be adopted by now.. Its okay just hold your head up high look into the mirror everday and say my family loves me i love my family and soon it will come tru [it was always true]

Answer 3

maybe you should live with your grand parents or someone else and you could visit your parents once in awile.

Answer 4

Most kids hate their parents when the are teenagers. I could not stand my mom when I was a teenager.  Then when I grew up and I got it. This is just a phase and you will go through many of them until you are older.  Your parents know so much more than you can even imagine, but you think they are so dumb.  At 13, you have at least 5 or 6 more years before you start to mature.  Until then, you just have to go through it like everyone else.

Answer 5

ur parents r both phyisically and emotionally abusing u.  they r also seriously neglecting u as well.  if they're getting paid 4 the work u do, unless u r willingly doing it-which it doesnt sound like u r, then they r also commiting an act of child/underage labor.  if u r seriously unhappy, scared, or being physically hurt while living with ur parents, u seriously need 2 tell somebody- a teaher, neighbor anybody.  

just know that if u do tell som1, u will most likely  b taken away from ur parents, meaning that they will lose custody of u and possibly ur brothers as well until officials prove what u say is true-and then they might b arrested, or have very strict limitations on when they could see u.  

Answer 6

Call Child Services. No joke.

Answer 7

UPDATE!!

Ladixcutie,

I realize they are your parents and you love them...they are so fortunate to have you as their daughter. They are still causing great emotional stress for you when they behave this way.

You may feel a natural response to "Protect them" by minimizing the impact this is causing you or by shuffling your feet saying "It's really not all that bad"...but it is bad sweety. They are causing irrepairable damage to you and the whole family unit by allowing this to continue. Now, in their defense, they may have been treated like this when they were younger and think it is normal...no babe...this is not normal...it is not normal.

they may be innocent in ignorance, but to chose to love someone you must be patient, kind, longsuffering or not given to harsh judgement ...I don't see them doing anything like this, but more forgetting what a blessing you are!

They need to be reminded...you can tell them you love them and just want them to love you also. My two daughters age 16.5 and 15 are going through this right now with their mother who can easily rage and be verbally and emotionally abusive and has been physically abusive.

I think you are definitely worthy of being loved in a healthy way!

Wally - part two...

Well,

I don't usually hang out on this part of the boards, but I saw this post.

If this is real, you are being abused. Abuse can be emotional, physical, sexual, abandonment. You are getting 3 out of 4. You need to tell someone close to you, who you trust to look for local solutions without spilling the beans to your...slave owners.

Child services will investigate, but it might be better for you to get someone on your side first who can take you in if necessary.

Look for a teacher, other parent or neighbor who may already suspect something is wrong at your house.

Killing yourself though is removing a precious girl from the planet that other, kind and loving people would appreciate. Don't let this Cinderella story end that way.

I wish I could do more than advise sweety...

Wally

Answer 8

well, you could always go and live in some nice foster home. i 'm sure they would let you do what ever you wanted to do.

Answer 9

maybe you're adopted.  

Answer 10

seriously call child services... listen to the first answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

Well, you have two options:

You can call child services like the others said or do what your parents want you to do without complaining.