I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM!!!!!!?

Question

ok.lets make this long story a lil short...

me and this guy were good friends

and he was a sweet person to ppl

so i decided to date him...

after just 3 days i cheated on him with his best friend

(dont hate me plz!)

i didnt know they were! BUT i know its still wrong!!!!!

we broke up, then got back together

cuz i know he still cared about me

but soon broke it off again

he is now mean to ppl hes not the same person

we are KINDA friends now......i guess????

i want him and only him...what do i do?

Answer 1

Him being a mean person now, is all depended on the situations that has happened to him. However, the fact that you cheated on him and got back together and broke off again, and you still want him sounds like you like something that you don't have. Simply ask him if he would like to be friends and see what he's comfortable with. Maybe you and him could have more of a "open" relationship. You don't have to fall into the typical mold of how a relationship is supposed to be. You and the guy have freedoms, and how you use that freedom to have a relationship is totally up to you and him. In the end, the only thing that matters is are both parties truly happy with what they get out of the relationship. But that is essentially the hardest part to achieve.