I Serisouly Need Help?

Question

I've done some really, really bad stuff latley. And my best friend, totally tried to help me out. But then we both broke out crying on the phone. And I don't think she's been able to look at me the same. Do you think she's totally ditched me because of what I've done. And I told her I totally regreat it, and I'd never do it again. What do you think?

Answer 1

We have to know what you did in order to determine a general idea of what she thinks. If she's your best friend she'll stick by you unless you keep making the same mistakes over and over.

Answer 2

look if she is really your friend she will stay by your side but try as hard as you can to fix what u have done

Answer 3

Sometimes when a friend leans on you, you end up not being able to stand yourself.  Maybe trying to help you was a bit much for her, and she just needs a little time to make sure she can stay strong and keep helping you.  There isn't much else i can tell you from here on my computer, but you'll figure it out.  Good luck.  

Answer 4

what did you do that is so bad?

Answer 5

I wouldn't begin to know the reason she's ditched you but, whatever it was that you did, she appears to have lost her faith in you!!!  You can attempt to explain it all away, but she'll have to have time to regain her faith and trust in you.  The important thing is that you honor your word by not repeating that particular infraction, or anything that comes close to it.  You may be able to regain her friendship, but she may always be suspicious of your actions in the future.  You must become the model of integrity, and then time may help to heal her wound.  Remember, everyone makes mistakes... just do you utmost not to repeat the same ones over and over!!!

Answer 6

i think she will eventually forgive yaa

Answer 7

she probally thinks of you alot differently. i think the best thing to do would be to stop doing those horrible things (get professional help if they are narcotics problems) if they are problems like your sleeping around, STOP its dangerous (std's) and then tell her you decided to stop (or your getting help) and you are upset as well and you are still the same person and you will try your best to make things back to normal

good luck

Answer 8

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i hope you work everything out, ok?

Answer 9

It's hard to give advice when we don't know what you are trying to ask us.

Answer 10

What ever you have done talk to your friend and tell her you do relize  what you have done is wrong!!! Tell her if she was the one who did it you could understand that you would hurt. Tell her you relize that she is afraid to be your friend because she does not want to be influesnted that away or be in that crowd. tell her your sorry. But if you tell her you will not do it again then you better not or your friend ships over because you broke the trust!!!! Relize drugs , alchol and s*x will take you to a place you do not want to go. Bad things happen to good people!!!! Talk to a good adult that you can confide. Come clean with your parents if you need help. Beleive me if you get caught dioing it life will suck for you and your family. because thay want to trust you and you need them to. It hurts bad not to trust someone!!!! Be a better person a do better for yourself. Its in the end harder to do wrong. You live with guilt, shame and fear. Its not worth that!!!! Please change or life will get rough and your life will end up in the tube. Why do you think we have prisons, drug rehab, diease, and young unwanted pregnacys. The guys usally are using you and you find out to late and can not take it back. I hope you are hearing this!!!!!

Answer 11

cat says i am serisouly sorry for your lots