I THINK ThaT I THINK EVERYTHING FROM HEART i mean,i think too much from heart and develop feelings for everyon

Question

i am 17 m,as i have said i think i take everything from heart..l live in hostel from past 1 year and i think that i develop too much feelings for anyone who gets close to me...

i mean that idevelop attachment with everyone...like i had a friend for whom i had developed feelings....i always help help him in any circumstrance but many a times he refuses to help me, i think that from his side there is not much of friendship...

this is not first case in my life,it has happened 2-3 times in my life also..

so thats why i think that i think too much from heart...in this world,everything is mean...so i should be too because whenver anyone does that to me,my feeling s are heart and i feel hurt and rejected

Answer 1

You sound like a really nice person. I don't think that you should start being mean but I do think that you should choose more wisely who you get close to.

The world neads more people as nice as you. I think that you should be very careful, though, because once people find out how nice you are they will take advantage of you. Be careful who you get close to and you might need to say no every now and then.

hope this helps

Answer 2

i know what you mean, you are one of those people who give give give and then dont even get so much as a thank you when your done, i was exactly the same

this is gonna sound a bit mean but this is what i did

you need to learn not to be so much of a push over

say no sometimes if people ask for your help but dont generally need it, however if you know they are struggling you should help,

ive found that sometimes so called 'friends' will try to guilt trip you but dont fall into it, just be like, ive helped you before and you didnt even say thank you, so now you can do it yourself

trust me you dont need friends like that,

i hope that helped

James