I WANT TO FIND MY ADOPTED CHILDREN ARE.MAYBE A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR? CAN ANYONE <span title="HELP?[e-mail]?">HELP?[e-mail]....</span>

Question

PURELY FOR MY PEACE OF MIND I WANT TO FINDOUT WHERE MY ADOPTED CHILDREN ARE SO THAT I KNOW THEY ARE SOMEWHERE SAFE & HAPPY INSTEAD OF JUST ANYWHERE. BECAUSE THEY ARE UNDER 18 I AM FINDING THIS HARD TO FIND OUT. IF ANYONE HAS ANY IDEAS TO HELP ME WITH THIS QUEST I'D BE VERY GRATEFUL.

REPLY PLEASE TO - [e-mail]

Answer 1

I agree with Gersh, and also can&#039;t believe what I see going on in the UK!

soulofadoption.com also has some bio-moms from the UK if I remember....

if you just post that you&#039;re looking for that support, someone will guide you to the right people!

I really hope you link up with your children!!

Answer 2

Even in the U.S. it&#039;s hard to find children under 18.  Unlike UK cases are sealed afer they turn 18.  Are your children for sure in the UK?  If they are here in US I would be glad to help.  Adopted myself and have experience in searching for biological family.  Just email me if you&#039;d like:[e-mail]

Answer 3

Molly are you in the UK?  Aren&#039;t records open over there?

Sorry, I can&#039;t help you much with this specific topic, but I hope you are able to find out where your children are so that you can put your mind and heart at ease.  I can&#039;t imagine how insane I would be if I didn&#039;t KNOW my children were safe.

There is a member of www.adultadoptees.org who is very good with searching, I suggest you join up (we are also very welcoming of natural moms &amp; have a space for them to support each other).  Perhaps Gershom can help you with resources where you live.

Good luck, I can&#039;t even imagine how terrible this must be for you.  (((hugs)))

Answer 4

if you are in the UK once your children turn 18 they should get all of their information ( if my memory serves me right )at which point, leave a good trail for them to find you, list your number, put out newspaper ads, go to the agency and leave a contact preference form do what you can!! they will find you if they look!!

also, really want to extend a huge amount of sympathy to the corrupt govt. scandals going on over there and removing children for no reason, i&#039;ve been following the media reports, the protests and videos on YouTube i am really sad about this. so sorry to hear, i pray you weren&#039;t a victim to it.

Answer 5

where do you live? i am in the united states. do you know the name of the agency your kids went to? you can always ask them. that is how i found my birth family. i called the agency i was placed at and they searched for me.

Answer 6

you can get talking to lawyer and he will know whom to contact and help you