I WANT TO JUST DIE!...HELP!?

Question

me and my ex split about a month ago and i haven't stopped thinking about him at all! every day, all day he goes through my head! he texts me while he is at work and then one text at night to say night as he says he is busy with friends, so i leave him to it.

at weekends he don't text me! i ring him and he is just horrible to get off the phone. i rang at half one today and he said he is in bed? so i text him about half four to see if he was okay and i got no reply so i rang and he said his phone won't let him text? i didn't question, just said okay and he is all like...

'i'm not hiding anything, i'm not your boyfriend anymore, i've nothing to hide. i'm going out tonight just on the lash but it's nothing to do with you if i sleep with someone'...

it just come out of no-where? so i was like what you on about? :S and he said...

'actually **** it, want the honest truth...i'm going to look and try and get with as many birds as i can'...

and i just hung up and cried my eyes out! i then see he was on myspace so sent him a message and he sent one saying 'soz' but now he's not messaging back.

i want to die, i feel like dying! i've already cut his name into my wrist. i need to get past this. help me please!!! :(

Answer 1

First of all, if you feel like you're very serious about killing yourself, call up the suicide hotline first.  I think 1-800-SUICIDE will do.

Second of all, you should try to distance yourself from this guy.  The truth is that break-ups hurt; A LOT.  And there's no way to get around it.  All you can do is get over it as quickly as possible.  It might feel like it's taking forever, but the quickest way to get over him is by not calling him or writing him.  If he contacts you, ignore him.  Maybe you want to ignore this advice and try hard to get back together with him anyway.  While getting back together with him is the wrong idea calling him all the time will just make that more and more impossible.  Every time you call him it drives him away further and makes him say meaner things to drive you further away.

Third of all, every time you can't stop thinking of him, try to make yourself busy.  Try to hang out with friends, or watch TV, or go out and exercise.  You could even find a new guy to go out with.  Just try to do things to keep your mind occupied and it won't hurt quite as much.

I hope this helps.

Answer 2

I'm sorry but he is right. He's moved on and you have to aswell. I know it will be hard but you have to move on somewhen, even if you really don't want too. What i suggest is to get you and your friends to go out together and have fun just being single. Stop wasting your life on him because i'm sure your better than that. Go out and enjoy your life, maybe you might even find someone else. You only live once!

Answer 3

Wow, I am sorry to hear that, but honestly you don't need a guy like that. you two are broken up for a reason right? Well I am one to believe that everything does happen for a reason. You should not dwell over this dude, he is not worth it! You should just move on, cause in reality he does not care for anyone but himself. You should be with someone who is going to love you, and care for you, be there for you physically, mentally and emotionally. There are many guys out there and trust me you can have your pick of anyone, just make sure it's the right one. You just need to leave this guy alone and let him live his life as you live yours, it's better that way. It may hurt at first but eventually you will get over him and later ask yourself, what the h**l was I trippen over?! Anyhow I hope all works out and remember you don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. It just causes more pain. Good luck and I nothing but a good life and future for you.

Answer 4

So this split was just to make each other miserable? If your going to break up it seems rather ridiculous to be in constant and annoying contact with each other. Take a break. Go out with friends. Do something different then constantly wonder what Mr X is doing or who he's with. Get a life of your very own! If he's not your boyfriend...your not his girlfriend and there are other guys!

Answer 5

He is done with the relationship with you but you have not given up on getting back with him. You need to realize that it is over. That's it. No matter how much you want him back, he's gone. That is why he keeps reminding you that he will go where he wants and sleep with who he wants. Just leave him alone. Don't call him, don't message him, and don't try to find him. You are clingy and needy. You need to call your girl friends that you have been ignoring and do something with them. Go shopping today, go exercise, clean your room, paint a room, help a neighbor.....and stop thinking about him. He isn't thinking about you.

Answer 6

Just back off of him and let him do what he want to do because the more you call and text the more rude he is going to be to you. Leave him alone. You will get past him.

Answer 7

same here wow just got broke last nite she said im not hiding iam going to date another guy tonite he have goood job and good future

i lost my mind too much to talk with some one but when i see out thr is no body to discuss .. its 2nd day

spacialy nite time is hoorible iam trying to read read read and take m mind away from her thoughts :(

wht tu tell hun im lost ur post helping to heal that pain that iam not the only one