I WAS WITH MY EX FOR 4 YEARS WE HAD ALOT OF PROBLEMS HE MOVED ABOUT 2 HRS AWAY 2 GO TO SCHOOL N THINGS GOT BAD

Question

HE STOPPED CALLING N I STOPPED TRUSTING HIM NOT THAT TRUSTED HIM TO MUCH HERE BUT IT GOT EVEN WORSE NOW WE HAVE BEEN BROKE UP FOR 6 MONTHS N HE USED TO CALL ALL THE TIME WHEN I WASNT ANSWERING N WHEN I STARTING ANSWERING HE STOPPED CALLING SO MUCH HE CAME HERE BOUT A 3 MONTHS AGO N WE JUST HUNG OUT N TALKED N HE SAID HE WANTED TO TRY N WORK IT OUT I TOLD HIM WE COULDNT I WOULD HAVE IF I KNEW HE WOULD CHANGE THEN HE CAME BOUT 1 MONTH AGO N WE HAD s*x WHICH WAS RELE DUMB ON MY PART CAUSE NOW HE DOESNT CALL AT ALL N WE ARE FRIENDS ON MYSPACE N THE **** HE HAS ON THERE IS FREAKIN WEIRD LIKE HES ON DRUGS OR SOMETHING BUT HE CHECKS MY MYSPACE ALL THE TIME N MY STATUS N MOST OF THE TIME ITS SAYS IM SAD OR SOMETHING RELATING TO THAT THE WAY HE MAKES ME FEEL...WHAT THE h**l DO I DO SOMEONE PLEASE HELP IM 24 YEARS OLD N I FEEL LIKE c**p EVERYDAY IM TOO YOUNG TO FEEL LIKE THIS???

Answer 1

Cut all your ties with this man you are to young , too good, too intelligent and too attractive to give this man any more of your time. Stop beating yourself up and start to treasure yourself. make your profile unavailable to him and enjoy your life.

Good luck and be nice to yourself.

Answer 2

Im sorry but I think you need to move on.

Im 20 years old & I dont even feel as bad as you are.

I use to live 2 hours away from my husband (when he was my boyfriend) & he always use to catch the bus everyday to come & see me.

& if your guy can act up like that then you dont need it.

Your 24 I think you should know better than to wait around.

Try finding another guy that will treat you right.

Well thats all I have to say good luck.

Answer 3

Girl you need to move on take him off your friend list and make you profile private don't talk to him just forget about him start to hangout with your friends more often and have fun it will make you happy or if you don't wanna do that go shopping and treat yourself to something nice.

Answer 4

You sound like you know what you need to do, it just sounds like you are having a hard time giving yourself permission to do it.

What are you getting out of feeling bad all the time. As for s*x it is what it is, if that made you feel bad than don't do it again with him. And, as for myspace step away from the site for a while they take him off your friends list. The sooner the better.

If you are tried of feeling bad than do something that makes you feel good.

Answer 5

Don't even worry about him..He is just going to give you a big headache if you keep worrying about him...U messed up by having s*x with him but i know how you feel because it seems like i have a hard time telling my ex no but now he wants me to have his baby but thats another situation. Just make it seem like that you don't want him anymore because when you do that and play hard to get then he will realize how much he wants and misses you but when you give in it will make him think you are always thinking about him and that boost his pride. So go out and find someone that you really enjoy their time and company.. and your ex will end up turning around  

Answer 6

He's a predator/stalker/abuser and you need serious counseling to first, get away from him and second, not get right back with him or someone equally as destructive.

Close up your myspace page or unfriend him, but don't let him hang out in your space.  And quit giving power to him.  What's between you is very, very strong, but it's dependency and not love.  And do not try to get out of/ over this alone, it won't work, you're too much in the center of it to get clear on your own.

Answer 7

u should move on but if wat u want is to get his atention u have to change ur status to happy or flirty or content something that makes him think ur ok and u will definitly get his atention but if u keep showing that u on him he feel like he dont got to show u nothing becuz he can come bak when he wants dont let him use u like that, yes u are young, go out with friends or soemthing that will make u ok bcuz he sounds like his ok

Answer 8

Ask yourself:  Why do I fall for men who I can't trust, who treat me badly, and don't call?

Answer:  Someone or something in my early life taught me that this is all I deserve.

Now carefully consider what that something was or who that someone was.  Was it fair?  Was it your fault?  Did you knowingly cause it?

Probably not.  Because you are right; you are too young to feel like c**p every day (no one should feel that way, regardless of age).  And this guy doesn't sound like someone that you should let have such a huge influence over you.  But you have to feel that you deserve better, and then his spell will be broken.  The fact that he checks your page shows that he still wants your attention - don't give it to him, and maybe then HIS status could be sad ;-(

Move on and move up - you deserve to smile every day and find someone that treats you right.

Answer 9

Cut the ties, walk away, leave it alone.  The more you draw him into your life the longer it will take for you to feel normal again.  He is a vampire sucking the vitality out of you and you are allowing it.  Forget him, count yourself lucky to have learned a good lesson in what you don't want for yourself ever again, and find someone who is not a nutcase.

Answer 10

unfriend him on myspace and make your profile private.  Stop talking to him and move on.

Answer 11

You are caught up in this image of how you want him to be but lets face it this guy just wants *** when he is hard up.Move on girl you're young and there are are lots of young men out there but remember a man is a hunter if you don't hold back and make things hard for the man you are going to be walked all over for the rest of your life.