I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF THE MAN I HAVE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HAS GOTTEN MARRIED?

Question

We have been seeing each other off and on for 8+ years. we recently hooked back up in 2005 and have been in each other lives since. i think he has gotten married and dont know how to tell me. how can i find out on my on for free.

Answer 1

Ask him, and then get confirmation by asking others who know him.

Answer 2

Simply ask him.

Answer 3

Yeah, you're gonna have to straight out ask him.  

So, I'm guessing the 2 major clues you have are: you don't have his home telephone number and you don't know where exactly he lives-therefore you have not been invited over.  

I'm going a step further to say that if he isn't married (but somehow you have reason to think he is) .and you've been friends for over 8 years and you don't know his telephone and address...  find a new friend, he's not being a true friend to you.  

Answer 4

Marriage certificates are a matter of public record, all you have to do is go down to the County Recorder. But if you think that he would get married and still continue seeing you without telling you, is there the kind of trust in your relationship that love requires?

Talk to him. If he can't be honest with you, he doesn't love you, and you deserve better than that.

Answer 5

you can go to a public reord serach in the county you think he was married in.

Answer 6

Put on your track shoes and run from this man.  If you think he might

be married, then you are doubting his relationship with you.  If he's married, then you are the other woman and regardless of how much you love him, that's a lousy position to be put in without your consent.

Do you know his friends?  Family?  ASK.  And ask him.   If he's keeping you in the dark as to his life, then this is so not the guy for you.  If he's hiding a wife, he's bad news.  You deserve more than a hook up and a part time guy.

You can search the marriage license applications in most areas by searching for marriage license applications in your county or parish or city or state.  Good luck!  

Answer 7

ask him