I absolutely need help with a friend i lost PLEASE HELP ME...?

Question

okay so there was a misunderstanding with my two very best friends. they are sisters. and me and my sister were best friends with them but now we feel horrible, and we started balling our eyes out, and we seriously can't live without them. so how should i go about telling my parents about us becoming friends with them again. so here's the situation we're going to go to their house, and make up. (: but idk my dad always says how the quiet is nice. but i feel like part of me is missing.

please help me, it's making me so depressed.

Answer 1

In one word which is sooo obvious - apologise even if you were not the ones who started the whole thing. An apology can set the ball rolling and make you feel better cos you have tried to mend what is broken

As regards to your parents peace and quiet - either arrange to meet them on neutral ground for outings or ask your friends parents if its ok to meet at their house.

I would also caution that some degree of not living in each others pocket would also be a good idea - any relationship be it friends or lovers can be too intense and put pressure on the others to conform and that is when arguements come beween the people in a relationship  

Answer 2

So you realize that there was a "misunderstanding" right?  All you and your sister have to do is keep the communication line open again. Go out there to your friends and let them know how important they are to you and also apologize. Trust me it won't make you small only your friendship will grow stronger(no matter whose fault was that). And last, if you communicate with your best friends more frequently, misunderstandings will have less chances to ruin  your friendship in future. Keep us posted.

Answer 3

Its perfectly obiouse that you cant live without these girls. Mistakes that you made must be confronted and talked out. You see, we are human. We ONLY make mistakes to learn from ourselfs. You, at whatever cost try to befriend those girls again. Apologies are at best when your heart is in great need for friendships. Dont listen to what your dad says or what anyone else says. You follow your own heart and go to those best friends of yours and make up. It'll be fine, besides ,you guys were best friends before right?

Answer 4

I'm sorry, but you are going to have to explain what exactly happened. You haven't told us what happened in the first place that resulted in this.