I accidentally hit my boyfriend in front of his mother!?

Question

I usually pinch him very hard or jab him in the shoulder when he does something that doesn't make sense (he can be dense at times), but unfortunately I did it in front of his mother! Talk about bad decision! I think that she thinks that I am a psycho for it now. What should I do?

Answer 1

I agree with the Cats' Mother. Who the heck are you to lay your hands on him when you think he's done something not to your liking? You sound like an immature little baby. I hope his mom DOES think your a psycho!

Answer 2

First of all, you should ask your boyfriend to tell you honestly whether or not he really minds you doing this. He may be suffering silently to remain in your good books.

If he really doesn't mind, he will probably defend you to his mother without the need for you to do anything.

Answer 3

First off what the heck are you doing physically assaulting your b/f b ecause you think he is not making sense. who made you his keeper?

Keep your hands to yourself. He is not a punching bag. I will tell you

that if I was your b/f and you did that to me you would get pinched or jabbed back twice as hard and then I would dump your butt for another woman. Try growing up.

Answer 4

You don't have any business hitting your boyfriend.  Or anyone else for that matter.  If I was his mother, I'd be pissed too.

Answer 5

Dont stress it. If your bf know's thats how you guys usually are, then it shouldn't be a problem. If his mom brings it up, apologize to her but explain that you guys play around like that and it wasn't any thing serious. But still apologize n see wat she says.

Answer 6

LOL thats funny but I doubt the mother cares as long as you watch what you say more than what you do

Answer 7

Just tell her that you are sorry and you did not mean to hit him, you were just playing around, she should understand, i mean how old are you 10?

Answer 8

You need anger management counseling and I'm not trying to hurt your feelings...What makes you the judge of his intelligence. If anyone pinched or jabbed my son I would not be very happy about it..nor would your Mother..it's called abuse.  

So I'm sure you are a nice girl and need to step back and make some major changes..like respecting your boyfriend and apologizing to his Mother.  Good Luck!!!