I accidentally walked in on my older brother masturbating!?

Question

Now he is really embarrassed! How should I approach this? We are really good friends and get along. We are kinda like a best friends. I'm 14 and he is 16.

Answer 1

Just tell him that what happened happened and you want to put it behind you. It shouldn't cause tension or anything.  

Answer 2

that would be embarrassing..just act like nothing ever happened...and someone needs to learn to lock the door,while someone needs to learn to knock first..

Answer 3

At this point, you probably look at him differently, especially because that is your best friend. The best way to approach this situation is not to ignore it, but to confront it. But there is a time and place for everything. Carry on your daily routines as usual. Later on, in a week or two, ask him about what he was doing as if you're curious about the process. Tell him that you are coming to him because you trust his opinions. Have him sit you down and talk about it. See what happens from there.  

Answer 4

Act as if it didn't matter to you. Carry on the good relationship you two have been having and you need not bring up the subject at all. He'll get over it. And, more importantly don't ever leak the news to any one. Not even to your closest friend. If the story leaks, it could cost you of having a brother as a best friend. Don't avoid him. Speak or break a news to him as usual. Apart from being embarrassed, he is also in fear that you may tell somebody about it. So discipline your self even if at any time you may have a quarrel or argument with him.

Answer 5

Just tell him to lock the door next time.

God Bless.

Answer 6

If you m********e as well...just tell him not to worry, you do it too...

Answer 7

    This is a bigger deal for a couple of teenagers than if my sister walked in on me doing that (she is 24 and I am 27).

      

     The best advice I can give is exactly like people said, just act like nothing ever happened. One person said to confront it as soon as possible. You do not need to do this. He is already embarrassed and awkward, confronting would just make it worse, then your best friend will be weird around you. SO, just act like it never happened.

My sister walked in on me a few weeks ago when I was "watching a movie" with one of my female friends. We we're fully clothed though, but on the floor...then the door opened.  My friend was embarrassed,  but I was like "Hey!, wassup homie...we were just watching a movie.....on the floor in front of the nice, comfortable couch."  And that was it.

    

     IF you haven't came to a resolution with him yet, break the ice. One evening, run up to him excited like....and say something like..."HEY!!!! let's go steal some road signs!!!!!"(I always liked to)  But if not, do something that you two have in common.

    

     Do NOT tell ANYone what you saw. If he found out about that, that would destroy his trust for you.

    I hope all of this helps    And trust me on this, in the future...this will be a funny story for both you. :)   Have a good rest of the day.

Answer 8

just act as if nothing'd happened. that is the best way. if you try talking about it to him, you'd only make him even more embarrassed. ok?