I accused my husband of cheating?

Question

He has just been acting really weird lately.

1. he's hanging out with his friends more

2. he gets annoyed at me for no reason

3. hes always mad

4.he doesn't talk to me

5. he doesn't help me with the baby.

I just don't know what else to come up with. So I asked him if hes having an affair, he got really upset and left the house. it's been 2 hours now and hes not back yet. and he didn't even call me. what does this behavior tell you.

Answer 1

The size of your jeans has nothing to do with it. Re-read ? answer.

Answer 2

All the items you list would make a person wonder. Watch the eye contact and body languague when you do talk. It's easy to tell when they lie.  

Answer 3

woah

Answer 4

he feels guitly.. so overwhelmed with guilt that he couldnt even talk to you about his behavior. He is doing something awful, if he wasnt than he would have at least tried to explain himself. He now is trying to figure how hes going to get outta this one. DONT LET HIM CONVINCE YOU THAT YOUR IN THE WRONG AT ALL! this is not your fault. his first reaction is the correct one.. hes been doing something. dont forget that when hes trying to get out of it with lies and dillusions.  

Answer 5

Sometimes when men are going through things they tend to shy away from others. You just have to communicate. Its not always because they are seeing someone else.  

Answer 6

well maybe he just wants a small vacation for a while... he may be stressed... have a talk with him to see whats wrong and see if that helps..

Answer 7

Maybe you should just sit down and have an adult conversation with him instead of just accusing him of something as horrible as cheating. Tell him the changes you've noticed and see what he has to say.

Good Luck!

Answer 8

Sounds like you nag alot to be honest. Try being silent that might help.

Answer 9

Its is possible he is cheating but that should not be your first conclusion.

None of those things indicate another woman.

He could just be stressed out.. and you could be stressed causing your attitude to change around him...

When your happy he is happy and vise versa...

Especially with a baby in the house.. maybe he is trying to avoid confrontation because he knows the stress is not your fault.. so he stays out....

I mean it really depends on the situation.

How is his work life?

Your personal relationship? Are you both happy together?

Think about all the things going on in your life and his own, then confront him... communicate... then conclude.

by accusing him of cheating you opened a whole knew door of stress.  

Answer 10

Well, if he has been detached from you - I feel you were justified in asking.

If he is a real man, he will come home and talk to you about making your marriage a happy place again.

Communication is the key. Don;t accuse or finger point. Just ask what the BOTH of you can do to make things right again.

Good luck.

Answer 11

You should never ACCUSE someone of having an affair without having PROOF.  Sorry, but that is only adding fuel to a fire!

If you have valid reasons to really believe he is, then you should find out for sure before confronting him.  Otherwise, you may just GIVE him a reason...he's gonna think "he might as well do it since he's getting accused of it."

Be careful!

Answer 12

well it might not be true but i'm sure he is cheating if u really want to know then start snooping let him think your fine and that u don't think anythings up bc if he knows u think he is cheating than he will start being really careful just start going thur his calls and voice mails texts (u cant ask ur cell phone provider for a copy of his text msg but do it fast bc they only keep them for a lil while) and go thur his car anything maybe tell him ur going out with some friends or mothers maybe sisters house and see where he goes follow him bc you have a right to know if he's messing around on you

Answer 13

cheater

Answer 14

Set him down ( no words ) give him a hummer, then ask him point blank while he is relaxed!!

Answer 15

Not really sure but I dont think i like the way he is acting.  You need to sit him down and talk.  Thats not a good sign if he just leaves.  sorry

Answer 16

He could be going through some real tough times. Maybe he's not cheating on you. MAYBE he found out a dirty secret about you. Or he could be cheating. Or just getting that feeling that he's not in love with you anymore. Could be alot of things actually.