I acted up during my last hockey game and my parents won't let me go to my next game?

Question

What should I do

I got 10 minutes in peneltys last game and a fight....

Answer 1

You should just listen to them and not go to the hockey game and not act up again.

Answer 2

Ahhh yes,  I punched a guy one time and got suspended  (in my league fighting of any kind warrants a game misconduct and suspension of a game.  Now I was in my early 20's at the time and I'm still glad my mom wasn't at that game.  She would have given me a lecture.

The only advice I have for you is to apologize to them and say you won't do it again.

I want more details though... Why did you get in the fight?... How old are you?, meaning are you still an age where you have to do what your parents say...  Is this a normal occurance, or do you see this as maybe happening again more often??

If you are under 18 and especially if they are paying for your hockey then you NEED to take their punishment.

Please update on the details.

Oh, and most important... DID YOU WIN THE FIGHT???

Answer 3

apologize to them and do nice things for your parents. if they see you with a different attitude, they might let you go

Answer 4

I thought the game penalty was punishment for fighting.. but they're your parents, it's up to them. You have to assure them that you won't get out of hand.

Answer 5

haha thats my kind of player

to answer your question it depends, if your parents have the attitude towards things like this to where in some cases they will feel guilty and come to their senses and let you play then i would just say it will never happen again but dont shake on it of course.

and if they say its not good enough just say the kid was pissing you off and you fought him in defense of yourself. and also tell them that i said that it happens to me sometimes and my parents can care less. sometimes they enjoy it because it gives them a reason to argue with the other teams parents and they seem to enjoy it and say that you wish they were more like my parents and that will usually work, normally my parents will give in at that point when they are being g*y about something. good luck and if you have never gotten out of a situation like this then well your #%@%^ed haha jk good luck!!!

Answer 6

take your punishment from your parents and don't question their authority.They are putting out big bucks ,I'm guessing here, and wouldn't stop you from taking the ice without a very good reason.

Maybe they are not just concerned with the fighting but fear you may get badly hurt

Answer 7

Depends. Why'd you fight the guy?

Answer 8

Ah...the Parental Penalty Box.

I'd suggest that you just listen to your parents and do your time.

Can't say much more without details.

Answer 9

Hockey isnt just a sport of fightning and hitting. Though it plays as a huge role. At the level you are in, it should not matter. You don't need to be fightning until you reach the minors man. Besides I gave up hitting and fightning, and worked on my stick handling. Keep you head up, shoulders low, skates and puck always moving. Avoid hits and punches, take more shots!!!! Fights don't win a game, goals do...

Answer 10

I agree with TBL. What'd you fight the guy for? Were you standing up for a teammate or did you fight just for the sake of fighting? Were you trying to instigate a fight? There's a line between a worthwhile fight and a stupid fight.

Answer 11

Well if it was a uncalled for outburst then i agree with them but if it was a legitimate reason such as trying to boost up the teams energy or defending someone on your team then i believe it is ok afterall fighting is in Hockey for a reason... 10 minutes in penalties isnt too bad when i used to play id rack up 2 fights and quite a few minors at least 20minutes a game id say