I actually never really fell in love?

Question

i have a track record of not falling in love enough to pair up with another girl (im a boi) for more than two decades and more. something tells me that probably i will not for the remainder of my life.

am i destined to end up as a loner?

the thing is i dont really enjoy talking with people. i enjoy watching women as eye candies, sometime giving them some kinky jokes or silly remarks, complimenting their quality as eye candies and how their buttocks arouse me and blah, blah, blah (in my heart). i never found any girl to talk what i think in this level of intimacy.

i love cats. i love my cat. i dont have to talk to her. she just loves me and enjoy my presence. my warmth and the sense of security i provide her. i wish there were a woman like this. then i could just be me and still have a girl to go out with.

so i know the answer to my question i guess. the chances of me falling in love is up to one in myriad possibility. maybe once in three decades. perhaps i can find someone before i hit 50s?

Answer 1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexual

Answer 2

what you need to do is stop lookin at women that way...in your mind you're making it difficut to finnd someone....no one ever finds the right person if all they do is deny it...people can fall in love whenever if they give themselves the opportunity to be happy....you cant say ur gonna fall in love it just happens when you least expect it...

Answer 3

You make your own destiny. I don't think anyone is destined to end up alone. My best advice though is to stop looking for love. As soon as you stop searching for it it seems to find you.

Answer 4

theres someone for everyone, maybe when u stop lookin for her she will just walk into your life and without realising it you will sooner or later fall in love with someone hu enjoys your company and the kind of lfestyle you enjoy!! good luck =]

Answer 5

hello

I'm sure you will, do you go out to any clubs??

you like your cat why don't you do voluntary for a cat home, be a foster carer as-well, this is a good way of meeting new people.

think you need to make friends with people first, then through them they may no someone who has the same qualities as yourself.

good luck and i do think you should join a club group and start making some friends.

Answer 6

dude, SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Get yourself a slick haircut, throw on some baggy jeans, take off your belt, find a cool shirt ( not a polo or dress shirt) and go down to the bar on friday night, and see what happens.  You might be surprised.  Just remember, you are the ****.  dont look nervouse, look confident not awkward.  hope it helps  You might not find true love at a bar, but hey, who knows what could happen. It might atleast show you that you enjoy talking to ladies, or if you try it for a few weeks or even months, and never enjoy it, bag the whole finding a lady thing.  Do what makes you happy. Seriously, just listen to me, give it a go, you probably dont want to, but do it.  In the long run, you'll enjoy it.  If your not comfortable with the whole bar setting, i am sure you can find something you like.  Good luck!

Answer 7

then why is your avater a girl.

Answer 8

You'll find someone eventually. I'm sure you're still young and you have plenty of time.