I always feel left out?

Question

I always feel left out, like everyone is in on some big secret i dont know. Even the few friends i have go out w/out me n stuff. Everyone is always in their cliques in school. im a senior in hs and everyone says live it up, but i can't? I am so jealous and angry.

Answer 1

You're not left out in this domain.  You're one of my favorites. x*x.

Answer 2

Respect yourself and always remain confident. Don't try to just "fit in," but instead seek friendships in everyone. With every person you meet, there's an opportunity for a friendship. As long as your goal is not popularity, people will see your radiant confidence and admire you.

Answer 3

I recommend getting an exchange student to live with you. It could possibly help you feel more included because you'll always have him or her with you.

Answer 4

i use to feel the exact same way. i talked to my doctor about it and it turns out i was suffering from depression. that constant paranoia that everyone has some big secret they don't want to tell you is all in your head. i had a group of about 8 girls that i was best friends with and when they went out without me i would just sit at home and be bitter or cry. but if i had just called them up they would have gladly told me to come along and join them. Not everyone is sitting around thinking about you and what you are doing...they don't know if you are busy or not. call up your friends or make plans in advance or invite them to do something. and cliques are stupid..they are so highschool and you are alomst done with that c**p so don't worrt about it.

Answer 5

Those cliques are just a mirrage. I'm a highschooler and i just hang with whoever has a good personality. Maybe it's not them who has a secret, but you feel that you don't know enough about your friends? Don't limit people with thoughts and do what you think is right.

Answer 6

Find a new click of friends who feel left out just like you do.

Answer 7

it's normal to feel left out sometimes. If you're left out and want to be more involved with your friends instead of waiting for an invitation to a party plan something, a trip to the mall or park, a study session, and invite them over. They'll let u hang out with them too, but if you keep inviting them though and they keep leaving you out - look for better friends!

Answer 8

they're the ones with the problems.  if they say they're going somewhere ask if you can go too or ask when they're leaving.  they just have other things on their minds, they probably don't realize they're leaving you out.  make sure they know you're there and want to be a fun, outgoing person with them.  that should work.

Answer 9

welcome to my life dude, any way there few stuff u can do find ur own hobbies and some friend with same hobbies and u will change it ^^