I always go to my friends house, but he never comes to mine. It's so dirty.... what do I do?

Question

Iv'e been to my friends house about 10 times, maybe more. He has never came to mine and I feel really embarassed.

The only reason I don't invite him is because my house is dirty... I can clean it a little but their are just still some STAINS and messy things that will jsut NOT GO away. Believe me, theirs a lot of them. My mom said she could clean it but the problem is she says it will just get dirty again by the dog or my 2 brothers so its a waste of money. I really want to bring him to my house.

Oh yea, don't tell me to get a house cleaner or something because we don't have that kind of money.

Answer 1

okay here is the thing, you both are friends and he's a guy, and pretty much he wont make a big deal out of everything. so a few ways.

one is to really really clean things up, if you mom wants to help, let her help you so it goes faster. then the second thing is to keep your house the way it is. throw away anything you think is useless, and don't ever buy thing that you don't need. also, you mus clean you house weekly, if not, every few days. then take caution of what you bring into the house and who you bringing in so you can make sure you don't get you place dirty again. BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, LEARN HOW TO DO CHORES, that is very vital because you need to know how to keep things in order.

a few tips:

make notes of where you put your stuff

classify your belongings

always put thing to where they belong to, have a specific place for a kind of items

don't buy things you don't need

clean you place often

don't be afraid to getting called "woman-ish" since you are a guy cleaning a house, its imprtant to be clean