I am 13 and want to die?

Question

My life is just terrible, my mum is angry at me right now because she doesn't understand about ANYTHING. I got bullied at school, I ended up having to be homeschooled and I STILL fight with these people that are mean to me. My mum and sister fight and it's ALWAYS about me. I am sick of it

Answer 1

You should talk to your dad.

Answer 2

Trust me, death is never an answer. What will that solve? Talk to someone, maybe a counselor or someone else in your family who doesn't live in the house. There's always a way to fix things, you just have to work to find that way. Sounds like mom is very stressed about things at home, as are you and your sister. Things do get better, trust me. You just have to work to make them better.

Answer 3

What does your mom not understand? Maybe you should try talking to another relative about your problems, and perhaps they could be a mediator between you two.

YOu should suggest to you r mom "Family therapy"

Answer 4

when i read this i see myself a few years ago. 13 was a very tough age, i know this sounds uncool but talk to your councelor! i talked to mine and she really helped me. 13 was a confusing tough age, i questioned myself in every way, but killing yourself will do nothing, depression is temporary in most cases, but killing is permanant. do you really want to leave behind your friends and family to suffer?

Answer 5

love. i felt the same way. not to long ago. i felt like everything wasnt going the way i planned it to go. i wanted to just die or somthing. i even tried to once. but then my friend stopped me. she made me realise that killing myself wasnt going to help. because by hurting myself. i was just going to hurt everyone i love and who loves me.

it would really help that much.  

Answer 6

Please don't kill yourself...

See a therapist...

Answer 7

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Answer 8

This is not an unusual reaction to what you are going through. But what you must remember is that all things end and this will end also.

When you are your age you have no concept of how long forever is. But death is forever and it is final. What guarantee do you have that where you end up then is better than what you have now?

My best advice is to talk with the clergy since you are home schooled and have no resources at school. What ever you do you must talk with some responsible adult. Please don't give into an impulse that would you think would stop the fighting. It won't you know. The fighting will continue. When your Mum and Sis fight about you start laughing at them. This is your best defense. Try it .......it works. This is also true of people wanting to bully you. Laugh at them.  

Answer 9

honey, there are people whose parents beat them or neglect them. thats a really really realllllllly stupid reason to want to friggin DIE! most of the people in my family do drugs and almost killed me but you dont see me slitting my wrists. get a life and get over yourself

Answer 10

I'm sorry, honey.

This is a really hard stage in life.  Can you talk to a counselor to help you work through your feelings?

Hang in there.  

Answer 11

There's always something  that you can do to change the situation. For the people who are bullying you, you can go to the authorities. Since you're being home schooled now, you don't have to worry about going the school system. You can now go sthraight to the cops. What they're doing is now considered harrassment and they can go to jail. As for you mother and your sister, let them know excatly how you feel and tell them that they're only making the situation worse.  

Answer 12

s***w those people. dont talk to them dont even worry about them. and give u momma some time to get the picture...which usually takes days possibly months lol and u dont want to die girl i know i have days like that too but think about yo future =]

Answer 13

aww! you really just have to know that there is always  something to make you feel better. your family, though they may not seem like it, love you. don't kill yourself please. you would regret that if you could. i love you! life is sacrid and deserves to be lived. there are always ways to make things better. just hold your head up high. there is always someone you can talk to. try seeing a therapist or anyone who can help.

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Answer 14

NO NO NO amy!!!  Don't.  I'm 13, too and sometimes I feel the same way.  My mom died when i was 7, then my big brother and my dad started to fight ALL THE TIME and it made me so miserable.  Then later my dad got remarried, and my stepmom and dad fight sometimes, and when they do, it's pretty bad.  They've gone through counseling and everything's fine now.  So PLEASE PLEASE don't give up.  Things can get better over time.  Just do your best, okay? I almost forgot to mention:  I'm a Christian and I think God really helped me through.  And....If you killed yourself, think of all the GOOD things in life you'd be missing out on, and how miserable everybody else would be.  Admit it: they love you, you love them, as hard as things may be.  You wouldn't want them going through life feeling responsible for your death, would you??  I wouldn't.  Praying helps me.  It would help you, too.  I'll keep you in my thoughts.  I promise everything will be okay.

Answer 15

My teen years were the worst of my life.  I wouldn't go back and do it again if you paid me!  Forget all that "these are the best years of your life" nonsense. It get's better, I promise.

I know you're upset and it feels like nothing's working right now.  Please give things more time to straighten out.  

About the mean kids- most kids that are mean just feel so bad about themselves that they have to put other people down.  If they weren't so miserable- they'd leave you alone. It's pretty silly, actually.

I think you should keep a journal of your thoughts to help get them out.  Try writing a letter to your sister & mom to tell them when they're always fussing- you get so upset and sad that you want to die.  It's OK to feel like that- but feeling that way doesn't mean you have to DO anything about it.  That would be a permanent answer to a temporary problem.

Do you have an adult to talk about this?  That would probably help you feel better.

Hang in there...and you can email me any time you want to talk about things or rant and rave a while.  

Answer 16

workout pump some weights relieves anger and u can kick those bullies asses.

Answer 17

kill urself then

Answer 18

Please do not do that yur young and you still have a lot of things to do in life, if i went to your school i would love to be your friend

we can be friends and you will see that life has a lot to offer

God gave you this life because he thought you deserved to be in ths world do not to anything to hurt yourself i can help you maybe we could talk  sometimes and just enjoy life, it is very beautiful :) ♥

Answer 19

I know this may sound dumb, but get into counseling. I am 24 and my 13 and 14 yr old brother and sister in-law live with me and my husband and it is really hard for all of us, we all butt heads, we all fight and we all want to kill each other all the time, but we started going to counseling and things have seemed to settle down. Even if it’s just you that gets into it, it will help some I bet. But also talk to your mom and tell her how you feel, tell her you are frustrated and that you need some relief, maybe she doesn’t realize how stressed you are.  

Answer 20

that's no reason for you to die your 13 you have so much ahead of you and i am sure your mom loves you. your just at that age where everything seems horrible trust me with that attitude it gets worst. a very close friend of mine killed herself in 9th grade don't make that mistake live it gets better I PROMISE!

Answer 21

please don't kill yourself. you shouldn't just give up. get some help and find a true friend to help you. thing's will get better after a while.

Answer 22

I know how you feel. I was your age a while ago, and although I didn't try kill myself, I did try to run away...with a 19 year old. We all go through this, and yes its hard for parents to understand us or relate to us, cause even though they had it tough times are different now. But, it definately is not worth taking your life over it. You will get through it, I promise you it will! The one thing that helped me get through it is my faith in God. Regarding those people that give you a hard time, just remember that they are going through a tough time too, the try to make themselves feel better by making others feel bad. If you give into that, your letting them win. Your going to make it through this, you have a lot in life to look forward to.  

Answer 23

You feel this way because its obvious you dont have a support system ... talk to your mom, I know she may be un reasonable but try ... if shes mad at you write her a note telling her you need to talk to her and slip it under her bed room (I did that once) then just tell her you are having problems and you need someone to talk to and tell her shes the only one you trust ...

Trust me you will gain nothing from suicide ... I tied it when I was 14 and i still have burn marks on my toung from trying to drink bleech Im 25 now ... they still bleed and remind me of that aweful time ...

When I think about it now I regret thinking that life was so bad I wanted to die ... I wouldnt have met my husband (the most wonderful man ever) and I wouldnt be expecting my son who will be born in 2 weeks ...

Life i beautiful but its beauty is not always black and white ... we have to search it out but once we find it we will know Its great to be alive!! :)    

Answer 24

whatever you do, killing yourself will not make it better! think of all the things you'd be missing out on. getting married, having kids, growing old...

i would see a counselor of some sort. otherwise, try to talk it out.