I am 13 years old and might be pregnant and i never told anyone but the father and he don't want to be a part

Question

well my ex boyfriend dont want to be a part off nothing because he hates me and he has a new girlfriend and i did not tell my parents i am sooooo what do i do help plzzz fast

Answer 1

Go tell your parents

Your ex is a jerk ;)

Answer 2

If you don't know for sure that you're pregnant you should go to a Planned Parenthood to get a free test and ultrasound. A test will work about one week after your missed period. Sorry to hear about your ex bf's reaction but you don't need a jerk in your life anyways. First you will have to tell your parents as hard as it will be and believe it or not you should tell your closest friends so you will have a support system. I would suggest that you go to teenbreaks.com and read some stories from girls that got pregnant at your age and kept the baby, adopted, or aborted. Hearing other girls stories and how they felt about their decision later in life may help you make an informed decision about which route to take. You can also call the number on the site which is 1-800-395-HELP and talk to trained consultants that have lots of experience helping pregnant teens like you. Maybe they could help you figure out a way to tell your parents. They can also direct you to nearby pregnancy centers that offer the following services:

•Free pregnancy tests and pregnancy information

•Abortion and Morning After Pill information, including procedures and risks

•Medical services, including STD tests,

early ultrasounds and pregnancy confirmation

•Confidential pregnancy options

You might also consider an open or closed adoption (open means that you can still keep in touch with the child). If you go through with the pregnancy you should buy plenty of books on pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting. You will need to get a gynecologist for checkups and ultrasound ever month, start taking prenatal vitamins, eat a healthy variety of foods, don’t smoke or drink, and don’t lift heavy objects. You should also take some childbirth and parenting classes. Be prepared for your body to go through huge changes. If you can afford it you might also consider taking a yoga class for pregnant women to stay in shape. Whatever you do, stay in school, graduate high school and go to college. Talk to your parents to see if they could watch the baby while you’re at school. There are also many schools specifically for pregnant teens that will help you stay on your feet.

Good Luck!  

P.S- don't let the jerks on this sight make you feel bad. Yes, you made a mistake but you can't undo it now, so make the best of it.

Answer 3

Well, your ex-boyfriend is gone, so I forget about him.  Tell your parents, they will understand(hopefully) and they will help you.

Answer 4

1. tell mom and dad you made a mistake and had s*x then he dumped you.

2. tell mom and dad you missed your period

3. Consider options

4. Decide from option choices

5. If you decide to keep the baby...take the @$$ to court and make him pay his half of the responsibilities.

6. Don't make that mistake again

7. Finish School

8. Be a good mom

9. Get married to a great guy some day

10. Have more babies.

Now get to it.

Answer 5

If you cant tell your parents, write one or both of them a letter and give it to them. You dont want the guy around anyway. All he will do is come back in a couple years and try and take you to court and take your kid. Leave him out of it. P.S. Get to a dr.

Answer 6

wow ur stupidd.....

tell him that he HAS to take part in tthis because HE got you pregnant...u didnt do it all by yourself....so tell him to grow a pair and step up to the plate. if he doesnt..then tell his parents. you should also tell YOUR parents because they can help you. (ur a child having a child << think about that) ur to young and that could result in a premature birth or you could get some complications ..so its better that nothing like that happens..

f*cking teens like you give the rest of us a bad name.....think before you spread ur legs...arent you in like the 7th grade? f*cking nastyy..

Answer 7

First of all, you NEED to tell your parents! They will be able to help you more than anyone else. That's what they are there for. If you are pregnant, they'll eventually find out. It's better to tell them sooner rather than later! You need their support also. They might get mad at first, but they'll help you.

Answer 8

I think you should check out and make an account at: www.scarleteen.com

if it has been 10-14 days since your risk though, you can take an at home pregnancy test, and you can expect it to be reliable.

if you're going to have s*x, especially this young, make sure you use protection such as the birth control pill and/or condoms.

Answer 9

you need to talk to your parents on an adult who can get you into the dr asap, then if you are theirs Adoption if you dont have the support from your family to raise a baby. You dont need a man to raise a baby!

Answer 10

yeh ok im going through the same prob atm.. but im 17... n i thought i was fucked lol.. but no seriously find out for sure before tellin your parents.. and find out asap.. this guy sounds lik a jerk.. but if ur pregnant ur gonna need his support.. y do u think your pregnant anyway? i mean your really young for this ****.. questions to ask.

1. Did you have unprotected s*x or is there someway his *** touched you

2. Have you had your period before (just askin geez lol)

3. Is your period late at all? Does it normally skip etc..

4. Did you take a morning after pill or ICU etc..

5. Take a pregnancy test asap..

6. Where ever it goes from here is up 2 u.. im facing the same dilemma atm... n i no how you feel atm.. but no that there are ppl out there to support u no matter what choice u make..

.. 13.. wow

Answer 11

Tell your boyfriend what you did. Then talk to your parents about it. They will get angry and ashamed (and who knows what) but they will also feel somewhat glad that you actually TOLD them.

Answer 12

tell him that it's his kid too, and his responsibility. he got u pregnant at a young age. tell him everything, and if he still is like that, he's an A**. (you can always tell his new GF about this... i'm sure she'd have somthing to say about it!) TELL UR 'RENTS! u can't handle this on ur own. they won't be happy, but they will help you. besides, if u don't tell them, they WILL find out eventually, and u will be in sooooooooooooo much trouble.

Answer 13

tell him then your parents..

Answer 14

You tell your parents TONIGHT.  Sit down and say, "I'm in trouble, and I need help -- I'm pregnant."  It's not easy, and yes, they will be upset, but you need help NOW.  Just do it and get it over with.  The sooner you tell them, the more options you have.

What your boyfriend wants and what your boyfriend GETS are two very different things. He may want to walk away, but there is NO WAY that's going to happen.  His butt is going to be in jail for statutory rape.  If not that, he or his family is going to be on the hook for child support for the next 18 years. In many states, if the father is underaged, the parents have to pay child support -- sorta along the lines of "paying for things that their child broke." Frankly, if you were my daughter, he'd be going to jail with a gunshot wound to the crotch!

If you decide to go for an abortion, you need to see a doctor ASAP.  If you are against abortion, then I truly hope you decide to give the baby up for adoption -- there are many childless couples who desperately want a baby and can give it the love and care it deserves. At 13, you've already demonstrated that your judgement is immature -- that's not someone who should be raising a baby.

Answer 15

I would take a pregnancy test first. If it comes back positive TELL YOUR PARENTS. Not only for your health but for your baby's health. How old is the father?

Answer 16

Tough, he is apart of it, if u choose to have an abortion he should help and if u don't the law can make him help. But u really need to talk to ur parents or an adult u trust. They will be angry, and hurt, but they will get over it because they love u. U can't do this alone and u shouldn't do it alone. Good Luck, and God Bless

Answer 17

well sooner or later your parents are going to find out no?

so tell them.