I am 14 and I kind of want to have s.e.x?

Question

I don't know exactly why, but I just kind of do. I am not the kind of person that would do this sort of thing though. I am a straight A student, and I rarely ever get in trouble. So, what should I do?

Answer 1

it normal its all because of your hormones.

just watch p**n and m********e and see how far it gets you

18 female virgin and god d**n proud of it

Answer 2

i'm fifteen and i lost my virginity when I was fourteen. I don't regret it and I completely don't believe in no s*x until marriage (evidently) but I do wish that I had done it with somebody who was really important to me and more sensitive to my feelings. So.... I'd say wait until you're in a secure relationship and also make sure that you can talk about it w/ your partner.

And use protection!!!

Answer 3

it's your life, do what you want, but i would say really consider it.

once you have s*x you can't take your virginity back.

if you do decide to have s*x, use protection.  ie. condom, spermacide, combination of several.

Answer 4

I would personally suggest you waiting until your older and in a serious relationship before having s*x. Make sure you are emotionally stable enough, s*x comes with more emotion than a lot of young girls realize. Whichever way you go make sure you are smart about it and always always practice safe s*x!

Answer 5

Its called "masturbation"

Answer 6

where do you live?

I'll be over shortly.

Answer 7

what ever you choose in this world is up to have fun!

Answer 8

you're way to young for this, obviously. but i guess at that age most girls and boys start to experience thoughts like that. as long as you don't do anything stupid its OK. And if you do decide to follow through with this, remember most men between 14-18 don't use protection and there are many diseases out there, not only HIV, but other STDs and there is ALWAYS a risk of getting one from your partner. The best thing to do is to make sure you get them tested at a doctors office. But again, you are 14 i think that you should live you life and have fun without being sexually active.

Answer 9

ok

im not finna be all like "dont do that its bad"

its natural, ur hormones are raging.

make sure its with someone you love, and make sure I REPEAT MAKE SURE u use a condom.

EDIT: **** WHO GAVE ME THE THUMBS DOWN!

IM NOT FINNA SAY s*x IS A BAD THING IF ITS DONE SMART AND WITH RESPONSIBILITY

Answer 10

wait till marriage??

omg no you will explode from all the sexual frustration

one of the best things in life is no strings attached safe s*x

no emotional attachment, no faffing on just a good lay

if you want to have s*x then it is your business and nobody else. Just be safe and use a condom and maybe go on the pill, and you wont get pregnant or get an STD if you use the contraception properly. so read the label carefully.

people on here will tell you that you will ruin you life and get pregnant , well there full of ignorance.

i mean condoms have been around since Egyptian times

Answer 11

Yeah, your hormones are raging and it's normal to want to have s*x. It's normal to think about it all the time and it's normal to dream about it. I've woken up many of times horny as a goat (I'm 17), but I know that I want to wait to have s*x and let that be something between me and my husband or my significant other. The only advice that I can give you is to just wait. Since you're at an age where you're thinking about wanting to have s*x, if you're not careful, some fella will come and sweep you off your feet and may seduce you, but usually relationships involving s*x don't last when you're in your early teens. And since you're a straight A student, you already know all of this, but just know that everybody is feeling the same way as you. Everybody is thinking about having s*x, and I'm pretty sure that you have friends who've started having s*x and they're probably telling you how good it feels, but don't listen to them. Don't be a statistic. Wait as long as you can and when you can't wait any longer, just make sure that your first time is with someone that you care deeply about and vice versa.

Answer 12

simple... wait!

Answer 13

well, i guess it is natural to think like this sometimes.... however, think about this.

1.in my opinion, losing your virginity to random s*x isnt worth it. only when your married you can do it. (my opinion)

2. what happens when you get pregnant? are you up for raising a child? will your "mate partner" support you and the baby?

abortion(please dont)?

3. when u do it, things only get more complicated unless you are physically and mentally ready for s*x and the future your life. just think before you do it

Answer 14

it's natural to be curious at your age...but yeah, i think you're too young. actually, i think anyone who's not married is not ready. at this point, you could affect your future in a bad way. it looks like you have a good school and work career ahead of you, but that could all be ripped away if you get pregnant and things could turn bad if you develop an std. be careful, please :(

you should really only share this sensation with your life-long partner. so you should have patience and wait for the guy you marry :) it'll be worth it! it's proven that people who wait till after marriage to lose their virginity enjoy it SO much more.

Answer 15

your way to young, your hormones are jumping off the walls, don't do it.

Answer 16

Try going to church, maybe you won't have sinful dreams, you evil little girl! Do you have a priest? Confession.

No, seriously. Don't you have some homework you should be doing? Obviously you don't have any classes about common sense. Why don't you talk to your mom about this instead o asking random strangers on a board? Duh!

Hoping all is well,

Answer 17

Well you have new urges like an adult does and that's normal but you need an education before you have a kid and if you do have s*x make him wear a condom so you don't get diseases or pregnant.

Life will be what you make it in this hard world.

Answer 18

Its only natural for you to be thinking about this.  Your hormones are changing, but thinking about it and acting on it are 2 different thigns.  You are so young to be having intercourse and there are so many consequences that can happen.  Continue to get straight A's and study hard, go to college, get a career.  Waiting until marriage is a wonderful thing, you get to share a special bond with your husband that no one else had...

Answer 19

its okay, its normal.. just DONT go and act on these urges and actually having s*x..since your going through a lot of changes your body gets these feelings sometimes.. many teens get these thoughts.. and those dreams too..soo i guess there is nothng you can really do to stop it.. keep up getting a good education, and be careful.. your only 14.. i dont think your mentaly ready for s*x.. anyways hope this helped :]

Answer 20

ok ya im 15 and i feel like that too

beleive me alll kinds of girls feel like that

its just a whether or not you will actually act on it, i advise you not to because really everybody does get that feeling.

just m********e or something

it will subsitute the feeling of having s*x so you can get satified just like that without actaully having s*x

Answer 21

oh babe, there's so much for you to learn about highschool.

high school works like this:

you get invited to a party, you go, there's about 20-50 people there, usually, you drink, some boy invites you to his house/ another room/etc, you hook up and MAYBE have s*x. it's a cold world out there, protect your body and your heart. don't believe any boys, especially those who party.

you can have s*x, just use protection. don't wait until marriage, life is too short to miss out on the fun.

Answer 22

if u really want to make sure ur protected or else ur life can be miserable but if ur not feeling it dont do it

Answer 23

Me too. I get urges a lot.. and I keep thinking I want to have it but I mean whats the point.. My parents would hate me, I could get pregnant because I dont know where to get birth control, and also I heard it hurts the first time anyways.

If I were you I wouldnt just have it because you kinda feel like having it. Yeah I have those dreams too. Wait until you at least get a boyfriend.

Answer 24

Just because you want to, doesn't mean you should hon. I mean, I want to shoot some people but it's wrong, so I don't =) (and for anyone that doesn't like that analogy, OP is 14 and therefore no, it isn't legal yet!)

Wait until you are certain, and I mean certain, not just caught up in the moment. Get BC and condoms together, contraception is YOUR responsibility, not his ;) He's not the one that has to carry a baby, give birth and care for it all it's life! And don't even go there on the STD's...

You've got your whole life to have s*x, there's no rush, no race and if you hear kids your age going on about how 'good' s*x is, they are probably lying... he he

Answer 25

well of course at that age your hormones are raging and all the other kids are doing it! but really take the time to think it out...because you can never get your virginity back! if you love someone and you think your ready just be safe and use protection! i do have to say that i lost my virginity when i was 14 and i thought i loved the guy, i thought i was ready, i didn't want to be the only one who had not done it yet, etc... now i am married and i really love him but i wish that i could have given my virginity to him, because that is something very special. i know it sounds corny but take it from somebody who has already been there. another thing is, it may not seem like it now, but the boys are more after the girls that hadn't had s*x or been with everybody else. oh, I'm not for sure if its like this for everybody but for me and most of the people i talk to says that  the girl don't start having an o****m until her body is all the way mature, i know i just now started gettingg them about 2 yrs. ago, so even if you do have s*x your probably not gonna the big "O " and he is gonna be the only one gettin anything out of it. anyways good luck with your decision and i hope whatever decision you make turns out the way you want it to!!!!

Answer 26

The right time to have s*x is the time when you are able to accept and deal with ANY possible consequence, be it pregnancy or an STD.  At 14, you are simply not ready.

Answer 27

thats real easy, you entered puberty.....the stage where people have raging hormones, just try to endure it, m********e if you'd get a strong urge...it wont hurt nobody

Answer 28

Well if you really want. Ask anyone from your classmates (boy) get a cute one. Invite him to go to your place then entertain him well. Then Just make any reason for him to go to your room. Then if both of you are in the room. Tell him your true intention. Lock the room then have s*x with him. If he don't like the idea, force him to do so. remove your dress then seduce him. Later he will be force to have s*x with you.

Answer 29

m********e.

Answer 30

Everyone has dreams about s*x, it doesn't mean you have to start doing it.  The maturity level of your question screams the fact that you are no where near ready for s*x.

Answer 31

Don't worry about it at all.  You're only 14 and your body is going through a lot of hormonal changes that is all part of puberty.  These hormones can make you feel a lot of different emotions and urges, like the urge to have s*x.  You shouldn't be in any kind of rush to have those kinds of experiences.  You're still young and trust me, your time will come :]

Good luck