I am 15 years old and I'm obssesed with this girl?

Question

I am a 15 year old guy in 9th grade. I've been obssesed with this girl for almost 3 years now, and she's not just any girl, to me she's like a best friend. We were best friends 2 years ago but as time went by she just wouldn't talk to me anymore. I still consider her a best friend but I don't think she considers me one, and I've been really sad lately because I see her with other guys and she does things that we used to do a long time ago and it gets me really pist. I've realized lately that this is ruining my life and I really can't stand living like this, I feel like crying honestly. What should I do?

Answer 1

Just try to move on. I know this might sound a little harsh, but sometimes you grow away from your closest friends. It happened to me.

If you are not ready for that yet, then I would suggest try talking to her, go do the stuff that you and her used to do, or tell her how you really feel (since you are "obsessed" with her.) If she does not accept it, then definitely move on.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

Aw. I'm so sorry. Have you tried talking to her about this? It might help. Other than that, there's not much I can say really, except that I'm really, really sorry that you've had to go through that. I can relate, because I've been in extremely similar situations. It's hard, but you just have to push through it and realize that people change.  

Answer 3

this is usually a difficult point. I would suggest you try to move on make some new friends.

Many people came in my life that I loved but I had to leave them for some reasons or they had to leave me.

But remember: Be happy and Be cool

Answer 4

forget about it go on with your bad self and she might just be trying to get you to look her way. Like you say you are 15 there will be a lot of this in your life before its over.

Answer 5

i had that same problem. The best thing to do is either slowly start talking to her more or just forget about her all together.

Answer 6

well what happened? like did you get into a fight or did she just stop talking to you? if you got in a fight, apologize and say u were an idiot for that or whatever, but if she just stopped talking to you well then call her and be like "can we talk?" meet up with her then and just be like "what the eff happened?" she'll give you whatever reason and then youll talk about it, and then when its all over, make plans with her be like "ok...lets go to a movie" or something so your relationship still is there. dont let it just slip away.