I am 16 and me and my gf want to lose our virginity together, but does she have to be on birth control?

Question

i will be using condoms. i know to change it before ejaculation. but if we have s*x weekly will she have to go on birth control even if we use condoms every time?

Answer 1

well she should be one it!

but as long as you use a condom every time you should be OK...

but those things do break...

me and my boyfriend used condoms every time, but one time it broke (it was a cheap condom) and well now we have a little boy...

and make sure you don't buy cheap condoms, spend a few extra bucks on the good kind...

just to be extra safe...

Answer 2

i think it will be a good idea if she did more the protection the better.  

Answer 3

If you have to ask questions like that, you are much too young to be having s*x. Have a great time when the unplanned baby comes and ruins both your lives.

Wait a few more years until you are mature enough to handle the consequences of having s*x.

Answer 4

Losing your virginity is a BIG DEAL. I would suggest that you guys think about what having s*x may lead too. She doesn't have to be on BC but it would be a good idea too ensure that she does not become pregnant at age 16. I'm sure you guys don't want a baby this soon in your life. Condoms would be a great investment, also at your local walmart you can buy a contraceptive called VcF, it's a contraceptive film that is inserted into your girlfriends v****a and then dissolves within 15 minutes, this film then turnes into a spermicidal gel that kills any sperm that MIGHT want to travel. Here's the web page, http://www.vcf-contraceptive.com/

So condoms and vcf would help to ensure she wont get pregnant. It doesn't matter if you have s*x weekly, wearing a condom EVERYTIME is a good idea. If shes too scared to ask her parents for BC you can take her to your local Planned parenthood and they will give her a prescription for it, without her parents having to know. But then of course the monthly cost of it will be your responsibility.

I think spending $15 on condom's will be a lot better than way over $2000 for the rest of your life raising a child.

s*x is a great thing and if two people are ready to take that step it can be very beautiful. Good luck & be safe.  

Answer 5

YES she needs to be on birth control.  Condoms can fail.  However, if the concern is her getting access to birth control pills without her mom and dad knowing, this can be done.  Federal privacy laws (HIPPA) allows for teens to get free exams, free birth control, and free STD testing and STD treatment, if needed, at any county health department WITHOUT parental notification.  In fact, the law states that the health department CANNOT notify the parent.  Keep in mind that you will still need to use condoms after she starts the pill because you should not be so careless to trust a 16 year old girl to always take it like she is supposed to.

Answer 6

change the condom AFTER u ejaculate! and slip on a fresh one for the next round....

Let her b on top so she can control the rate of "entry" motion and the pain...Dont be a brute and slow down when she asks....

Answer 7

If you are going to have s*x you need to use a condom.  However, your GF can go to planned parenthood where they can teach her and help her with BC without her parents knowing.

Answer 8

it doesn't hurt to be too safe. ALWAYS make sure you use a condom and if your GF is happy to use an extra method of birth control then at least if one method fails you have a 'backup'.

Well done for having the responsibility to use contraception, there are plenty of idiots (unfortunately i do have to include myself in that statement!) who don't respect themselves enough to.