I am 20. and i am about to date this 39 year old.. Is that worng?

Question

i really like this guy.. Hes actuly my boss at work.. hes super se*xy and looks atleast 30... He has 3 children and is Divorce. his wife cheated on him and left him. So hes heart broken and thats what makes him a good guy.. casue he likes me for who and what i am.. He also went out with my couzin for a month last summer and she left him, casue shes a player.. I really love him and he likes me too. what should I do... My dads friends with him ( my dads 44) and my family is very triditional.. even if they find out i dated him they will kill me.. So if i were to date him.. al this is gana be a secret for life.. omg i need serious help...

Answer 1

A good friend told me dont get your D!(k and your paycheck at the same place. I hope that helps

Answer 2

It is not legally "wrong".  However unless your life experiences are very similar (and I don't see how they are from the things you have stated here) usually these June December relationships don't work out.  I can see how parading a young good looking 20 year old chick in front of the old spouse would really get her juices flowing (what sweet revenge would that be!).

Eventually your family would find out, you can't keep the love of your life a secret forever.

Answer 3

Wrong?..........I don't know

Stupid?.......Much more likely

You already know your family is gonna flip, is it worth it?

It's seldom wise to date your boss.........if you don't know why, ask around, varies from pressure to company policy to illegal.

Your an adult, you can make up your own mind, but start thinking with your head, not some other body parts.

How old are his kids?  You might have a step child about your own age, (usually not very comfortable).

Luck

Answer 4

Ash very thoughtful of you wanting to help out an old broken hearted fool.  But reality is that dating your boss is probably one of the most foolish things you could ever do.  And the fact that he is a friend of your parents, well there goes that friendship.  Sorry Ash but it is time to take off them rose coloured glasses and look at this situation as an adult.  He is twice your age, has 3 kids and has so much more life experience than you.  The fact that he is that much more worldly wise, mature etc. is going to be a big downfall.  How comfortable are your friends going to be around someone their parents age?  Or for that matter how comfortable are his friends going to be around someone their kids age.  Sorry I don't think that this will ever work or that it is a good idea but I'm sure that you will find someone more age appropriate soon.  Best of luck.

Answer 5

DON'T DO IT! He may be the nicest guy ever, but you're both fooling yourself if you think it's going to work.

Answer 6

If you have to keep your relationship a secret I would definitely advise against moving forward with it.