I am 21. And I don't want to be g*y.. I cry all night and day?

Question

guys,

soon when I realized that I act and look like g*y and have a fragile body I started hating myself. I had slept with few guys in past but not wanting to.. I like girls to and have slept with a girl as well.. but I am always worried when someone calls me g*y or so.. as my sleeping with men is hidden... and i have stopped doing it from past 2 year.. I don't wanna hurt my wife by doing wrong things... I wanna be a good husband... whenever I go to social environment I start crying badly soon after that.. I am always worried if i have acted g*y or did i speak to girls more than guys.. this has become my psychology... I hate it so much... help me guys!! I cant tolerate these thoughts.. at times I m********e and look at myself if i acted g*y.. i am worried al time...

Answer 1

Ok, what you look like has no bearing on your sexual orientation.  If you don't want to sleep with other guys then DON"T!!!  Seriously, stick with what works for you.  

After all, why do you care what other people think of you?  Will it make you happy or a better person?  I think not.

Answer 2

No one is looking at you wondering if you're g*y. How often do you pay attention to other people and wonder about something having to do with them? Once you atop wondering ans worrying about what people think of you, you will find a happy medium.  

Answer 3

I hope for your sake that you and your wife do not have children. You are in a rather bad spot. You are probably g*y. There is (in my opinion) nothing wrong with this. What is wrong is that you are having a problem with it.

If the problem is that you don't want to hurt your wife, it would hurt her less if you were honest with her. If you don't have children, you probably ought to consider divorce and perhaps annulment. If you do have children, you have lots to consider.

You can NOT choose to be g*y or not to be g*y. You CAN choose behavior. Lots of g*y people CHOOSE to not live a g*y lifestyle. I am not so sure about their happiness. Lots of g*y people choose, for religious reasons, to be celibate.

You need to see a counselor to help you sort things out. Most EVERY guy (if honest) will have fantasies and even experiment with other guys. Sounds to me, though, that you may be g*y. Again, nothing wrong with that, but you MUST be honest, at least with yourself.

Do NOT have children, this will just complicate things NOT cement your relationship.

Good luck to you.

Answer 4

you need to relax and be satisfied with what god gave you. who gives a dam what other people think of you.............for real....f-uk them and if u worried about ur relationship then just stop thinking about all of this...you are way too paranoid.......you need to relax...

Answer 5

If this isn't a fake question, then you need to go see a therapist of some sort.  

Answer 6

You are seriously messed up. If you like women and hate sleeping with men, then you are STRAIGHT!! Duh!!! Just because you have a "fragile body" doesn't mean you're g*y! You clearly don't even know what it means to be g*y!! You like girls, so you are not g*y. Get over yourself!