I am 27, is it normal that my husband and I only have s*x like 2 times a month?

Question

I am 27, is it normal that my husband and I only have s*x like 2 times a month?

Answer 1

I recently read that s*x IS important in a marriage and that if you are not getting enough, try scehduling it.

Its like maintaing a proper diet and stuff... and like a diet you can make it horrible or make it into something cool... make the best of it. Take baths, give massages, oral, light candles, play s*x games,  etc...

Answer 2

I am 39 and the wife is 36 and we have s*x 2-3 times every week. so if you add it up that's 8-12 times a month. I'm sorry if your hubby is not chasing you enough...just talk to be, try to be honest, that's all I can say, being honest is part of the marriage.

Answer 3

That sucks but it's normal.

Answer 4

Uh no thats not normal. Even with kids we are 3 times a week. If it doesnt bother either of then its normal 4 u 2.  Kids are not an excuse to not have s*x sorry.

Answer 5

hellllll no!!! Its healthy do it more! Make time!!!! Me and my man do it 3-5 times a week!! Sux 2 B U!

Answer 6

There is no "normay" but if you think it's too little, then try to do things a bit differently.  Try to find new and exciting ways to spice up your love life.  He will be greatful!

Answer 7

Depends. Kids, travel, job schedules. Many things can keep people apart. You have to decide if you can accept it. If you can't then do something about it.  

Answer 8

That sucks but it's normal.  Personally, I want to get in one of those relationships where I'm having s*x everyday even if it's not normal.

Answer 9

thats normal

whatever is right for you

Answer 10

Hey~ I think you're okay. As long as you're both communicating with each other, s*x isn't such a big deal. If it's really bothering you tho, just make time for it. HTH!!

Answer 11

everyone is different, 2 times a month does seem a little low but if you are both working and/or you have kids I can see why. Its not that these things get in the way of you doing it because there is always some down time but if you are so tired by the end of the day i think it is totally normal. Just make sure you dont lose all intimate time.  

Answer 12

If you and your husband are content, then it is normal. If either of you is not satisfied, then make the effort to make the time to be with each other more often.  Try a quickie once in a while.  Just because you're married doesn't mean it always has to be full of romance and extended foreplay.  Have fun with it and fulfill some fantasies.  

Answer 13

If you're getting it twice a month you're doing better than me!

Although at 27 I think we were doing it at least that much (we're both 40ish now + 3 kids).

Answer 14

No that's not normal.

At your ages you should be having s*x a lot more then 2 times a month that's for sure.

My husband is 43,i'm 39 and we have been happily married 17+yrs and we make love 2-3 times a week.

Answer 15

go with the first answerer. things keep people apart.

Answer 16

I would say not normal! I'm 30 & my hubby is 27 & we have s*x at least every other day! Sometimes its at 3:00 in the morning but hey we're doing it!  

Answer 17

it depends on what you two agree on and discuss, , that number seems low , but, its only real rule is what you both are comfortable with.

Answer 18

its normal if you have very hectic schedules or kids but if not then its definitely not normal we are a young married couple no kids and we do about almost everyday unless we are really tired =]